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~SOMETIMES~+ L9 t' s- F& u6 ]4 }
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Sometimes people come into your life6 y; c/ r- _/ ^3 @
you know right away that they were meant to be there,9 j# \: C4 G% {6 |. \
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
: u& A1 q- l1 G. u4 E* `# T$ _or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.! E0 |# m4 X# I, v" z
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" r+ x6 b5 k" B; z4 z& `You never know who these people may be0 ^, B; {2 _) k1 N* W
but when you lock eyes with them,% N9 V8 a# G. g9 G
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way, _0 E' K& N: [! r- {( [
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!7 y8 w5 j+ \7 Q7 J* ?2 T" t9 Q$ M" d
They are there for the reason you need them to be., T3 H; y6 P& V: e( R
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,7 a, w/ l& T6 B6 J) Z/ w0 p
6 U6 C2 H3 S5 a& Z0 C7 e- e- rThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
, v3 [7 ?3 v9 d4 P3 E4 Z9 Y, ^Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.4 k' f4 R9 g0 O2 J' U
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.2 S2 M4 @* [% C: P/ ]$ a
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,! m% Y# p! J$ k+ x$ b; O1 \! r
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
* d( I, u& r% `6 z, jThe prayer you sent up has been answered.( V- K x( e0 v! M
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON! U& w% }# U9 B, e% \
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.% b5 m" ~1 W7 O
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
: H* _, ]# y+ x0 P. F: r6 TThey may teach you something you have never done./ |( ]: J. J5 l* j3 t* i' i
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy./ D) U9 o6 I( t: t
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:# c$ l3 J5 I3 e
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,6 I" H3 ~+ n! g/ M0 C; J) E6 C
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
% N, |1 K5 w8 g8 ?( p7 gEverything happens for a reason.# k j6 S5 w' Z3 \
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.8 P& z; v, A3 K9 }1 [+ ]$ w
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,. d" {5 X6 v3 x: K
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.( K! I$ i! \5 n. x0 Q
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. g4 C0 K8 |. c) R+ AIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,' y, s4 Q. F4 s( S7 x
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
; ]8 n! R3 v1 c- C' w% Y' OIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,0 \4 z s+ X, O$ b8 z9 X: k5 t
for they have helped you learn about trust: i) H9 Y3 N2 q& w U
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.! N4 q3 Y0 R b. I3 t# K
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,, M: e V% H" R# j( v* `7 R
Try to love them back unconditionally,0 J! n0 \. @/ k, L U7 q
not only because they love you, but because in a way,8 G9 Z4 d, k0 \( K& V8 c$ i, b
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.. `6 G6 S9 b) l& f
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.) J$ I' O7 p0 b& w+ b5 n% d
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
6 j* ~1 z- q7 M4 R; ?9 Aand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
t/ \, o- {3 P% ~3 cGod's grace is as a healing hand.2 B" d+ @0 l# d# P1 [3 y0 W
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,) J* G% U2 O. P, H" ~& D' y
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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