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Sometimes people come into your life" l. Q+ W( ]# z
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
+ V) y# o0 t) L" y; Dto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,) k+ z8 S# w& ?# B0 g
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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* h* `9 |/ _0 u" C5 UYou never know who these people may be
. q1 V+ c5 ?1 P" S9 _, o" K. vbut when you lock eyes with them,' g1 t+ w0 Q% _4 [
you know at that very moment,! Y; p9 l$ y8 V: s* { F! t6 B
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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1 j/ k) G, ~4 ?" `0 ]. SThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
3 g5 f0 |1 H: U% o' rThey are there for the reason you need them to be.9 b7 N V3 U$ F
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
: j; N$ j# q" F- V* wSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
: I$ Y$ g6 s$ l$ T- TSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.. N, Q s4 K1 U! o
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Q6 Q( u7 J2 l1 e1 }5 z& sWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
7 j8 u: e; n* K1 wour desire fulfilled, their work is done.3 G) g2 t, P' ?; `1 `" O( \
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
2 |8 _- A+ H5 S4 U, MAnd now it is time for you to move on.( f& l4 m% W! G6 f' |- g
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
8 D6 x1 @7 g0 @8 Y* i$ I# }Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.9 X2 s4 v5 N( [+ R; H& \
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.! d3 f- C6 a' B. |, _4 f
They may teach you something you have never done.) u/ U& N, r1 k5 |% `! B
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
' |/ i- M, Q5 r, X9 ^Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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1 r P# T3 R' B" ]LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
, e, g( q+ @% s8 r# B4 SYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,1 I f) B: M" v- D: N% O
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
+ v$ N- N- j; P$ d% G9 u# [) wEverything happens for a reason.
9 b- U' B( ^$ |. }/ aNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
' U. ^+ ~9 P& K1 ~6 i$ `Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
" [( L' s2 O" p2 ]" P! S- Hand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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3 H( L" D/ X6 \+ Y% f1 KIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,* N* c6 m) L$ l! h
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,4 W$ a6 t9 O1 n6 g$ L5 ^
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,: t6 j+ i6 x$ P$ {. `
for they have helped you learn about trust
( Z# D: Z9 c4 _' L Yand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart. W3 L& B& f+ R4 v: ~8 B
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,3 Y) v" ^" n/ w1 F/ m
Try to love them back unconditionally,- F& u( m/ h7 a' s d' W
not only because they love you, but because in a way,# m$ R; I. n8 h; |
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.- [/ s4 y$ H" R _# Y" f, n" I
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun./ A, \0 R- v( o
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,5 R' b Z- E" E6 O
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
# v* }7 t. E ^2 F* hGod's grace is as a healing hand.- Y, |* c: \% S9 Y! I W
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
+ m7 d& V% J5 H9 K2 Fthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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