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Sometimes people come into your life" `2 j9 w2 j5 _" k. g
you know right away that they were meant to be there,0 l; f6 |6 X r: q, ^! d7 b* C
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
4 ]) A; R' Q: g* ~or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.1 s6 y6 S7 }* J. k% {
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" d3 ?: G/ |& s& S- c7 fYou never know who these people may be" E% x7 ~! a7 Y0 l: V5 M0 f
but when you lock eyes with them,
+ {* U/ h9 i, b% w0 p6 oyou know at that very moment,2 B) p" r9 T" k% B4 {4 A: k3 h
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
, ]8 Q" o; L% TThey are there for the reason you need them to be.8 P* ^# O4 D# b" C
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,8 k) n! z: V N
$ W; ?7 n, `9 i% F8 |7 @" U1 TThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
3 h8 R7 e# N4 M; _( n+ N8 D5 gSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
$ g7 G( t: x7 S( lSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.& ?9 U# _2 R2 W b
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$ b/ ~# |! C) P) j' \What we must realize is that our need has been met,
+ q% g% P0 _! k, Q- b3 aour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
, y) w5 J' D( s( r* VThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
$ N( i k: Q: S5 S8 a1 mAnd now it is time for you to move on. h2 W$ }& W6 D
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/ B3 ~7 [2 l# J9 mThen people come into your life for a REASON ^" B0 ~2 u2 P, Y1 H; R D
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
( U- N5 m# U5 ZThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.' w* @; S& f; h% ]+ f) N
They may teach you something you have never done.( s3 }% \+ I8 ?% s6 r( Y/ j. N
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
) Q0 K8 Z) g+ o9 ^; m+ Y7 q* D. JBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
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Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.8 d( S/ d) g) ` Y0 u5 w; [3 \
Everything happens for a reason.
5 V; O0 \; w% I+ y2 V, H, ^/ oNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.% g- ]" `0 @$ e) F J# k4 X' C
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
. ~. S7 p# @$ |" Q$ U3 Pand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. w# q8 d/ w: }- ^5 e W
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,( N ^. L9 t7 m
for they have helped you learn about trust
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) A: M1 y- z; M$ y0 N' pIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
. @# v# M% E4 X, x6 P6 wTry to love them back unconditionally,
# R' K* K$ Z$ W* j4 B4 {% vnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
- \$ w1 v1 F: `) P# jthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,/ u1 `+ H6 T4 |' a3 ]' p
7 \& ]* M/ t9 f8 [) K2 wand a time to every purpose under the sun.
@- j+ w$ _. n" O; k7 \A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
# F- E( _6 D0 O7 Land a time to pluck up that which is planted..."" b5 \. q. y! O/ ] q
God's grace is as a healing hand.! I; L4 B2 V6 Q; x9 c
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
; g' V/ c- E5 Y( y7 rthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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