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~SOMETIMES~5 o. ~0 S/ P s8 ~! }( M% r
7 b( V. Z0 i# ]( o- w sSometimes people come into your life
8 r! Z/ o( d" P4 W. iyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
2 h: h7 ^0 y! wto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
s* }: w% [5 {3 [) g' }4 Ior to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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: M" q* Q8 V5 AYou never know who these people may be
. ?7 L6 c$ k+ V$ x" I% Ybut when you lock eyes with them,1 ^ y+ ?* f. a, u5 p! |0 U, |
you know at that very moment,$ \& ~( ~* o+ _/ H6 z1 o0 j6 c9 L
/ d% i! m* K, ?5 R3 u. l7 Y3 GThey will affect your life in some profound way: q/ j* d( @) S u$ c6 Y* g$ _
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!6 }. {+ u6 ~( a o/ N# M- K# a
They are there for the reason you need them to be.9 @: `( r) ?& f# y8 r
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
* ]# ~$ @/ e( X4 RSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.+ f$ ~" M. O9 ]* w5 b: K9 [
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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; R, s- x4 R4 T% T eThe prayer you sent up has been answered.$ R u$ y* a/ F! g) J4 c! z
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON" b, a4 A% |9 [* ]' L
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.$ A* }; V) |% B0 f
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.: p( y4 C* M1 m! Y* i
They may teach you something you have never done.
0 t/ [3 R" j7 O5 s" A$ w; NThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.# `- `2 l% o7 N. @; q. G4 O( a
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
) t( L X n5 B HYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
8 J* b5 M$ K' @6 o+ W9 PPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
- n% ]3 a% S" x9 EEverything happens for a reason.
: J5 r2 ~- F& Q+ j$ x' n" C2 R( x0 pNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.* d3 c! b6 o& ~+ Z
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,* x+ B/ O' H* {
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.( ]/ r9 L/ p9 P9 I6 h, h
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* `6 I% r: B% b6 K2 Z- MIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
) U" G- ?6 C7 z0 M: a+ k/ \You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
/ C" u+ w; g' K" s- I2 KIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,/ Q; p8 J7 u% N+ v+ E; P& D* A
for they have helped you learn about trust+ o# b. R( ~, v* }+ a7 V: P
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.# G+ R p) |% `
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,5 r: @/ x. s9 _) f& N2 O* ^
Try to love them back unconditionally,
3 N8 v% }/ K# P5 ?not only because they love you, but because in a way,2 v) l* J8 i( F. ]
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,5 V7 F3 D" ]- e9 Y
3 c1 d" @! [1 v$ O7 Xand a time to every purpose under the sun.$ ]$ d7 s* J* J7 n" N
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
' g1 T% [' X& @4 s1 `and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."/ M8 A- B! `, |% `- ]. t
God's grace is as a healing hand.
, Z8 b& a4 Q% s" q1 OAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,2 J9 N! d4 H/ w7 w$ Z; u4 X
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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