The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to$ h& J8 Y' ~+ a0 [. @. Q9 [! y
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear ' L W' ]2 e% \ k; T5 h' N a8 c, O# uthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what 1 i z- ~" p4 J2 Dyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will" [/ w' x, A+ u$ Y S( v
think of you.- s _6 n( j9 w5 U/ I( r! r: L! F
: J8 W& d y1 Q! [; PUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first : V/ `& j' F9 m% d) l9 Xnames: 2 O7 |* O9 C3 {2 m1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.# {, z+ S& C7 E/ X# Z
2) The second second: Don't think about what to 4 s4 M- Q& C( |& s: M; Csay—listen for the name.9 j. a2 B5 C# q7 c7 e' w- D- b1 F) s) K
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.( v4 U$ G/ o h5 T
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know # H. P4 o8 E4 o5 M' Iwith the same name.0 A' n( m: z+ ]+ D
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the # j% m$ l& }6 w8 c4 ~6 f- ?+ v: T' Pend of the conversation.; a0 {& J/ q' k3 [8 N: M9 M
. D3 n! ~1 c! y8 u---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>