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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to8 u" l; O6 {% J) I
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
; p6 G& ]3 [; A1 r) Z, bthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
; N" e: W* e# W5 V( W$ k# Syou're going to say next or worrying about what others will
3 Y8 T& w' W( j% X! f1 Z6 ^ t" Gthink of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first: C5 ^3 P# a) W2 @" q- S% r3 c
names:
! d( ]5 e& J! C& S1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.' y; N5 q% m1 G* a6 |" K# X) l
2) The second second: Don't think about what to8 r+ ?% e4 \/ e% U8 z
say—listen for the name.% u R3 G/ O% l2 g$ [0 B
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.# e2 p, H5 M3 K8 d' V2 |& O
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know8 y/ r1 t- P8 q
with the same name.
* U8 D4 f I5 B a' L$ B5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the8 }8 ~2 m, v9 G/ }' X9 e6 I! d
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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