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 Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it.4 N2 s% t' [+ B" Z# u/ k
Touching words from the mouths of babes.
# \* ~; A/ ~( ~4 g& e. X' uWhat does 'Love' mean?
$ ~ n( B* h3 I" h1 s9 y8 jA group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'0 C; ~3 I0 I6 F7 i; q
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:: m& K4 R8 B6 I2 h
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+ u( l* o% C& d3 b: S- a'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore., R! i$ h0 z' h4 w& C$ [
8 l, D+ D3 ?$ S& VSo my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'$ i! v* b9 _( N+ a# q Q& |( ~
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O$ N) |' e" X! T' K'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.# B8 N O9 ~" h0 w F. o
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'2 d5 F' s$ K6 k% u2 R* z+ k/ N
Billy - age 4) L( S7 F+ r$ I
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( j+ i+ i( L+ w5 }'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'1 s, d4 h7 F7 o6 L8 O! Z
Karl - age 5
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'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'
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* x: q8 o% F2 t'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'
5 M- e. r$ v, HTerri - age 4$ H+ @- ?) m0 H( k
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8 J% }9 M4 x# r'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
8 [# ^7 ]" p+ k. V* |; q2 v2 dDanny - age 7
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'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.- W$ R) g* n5 G
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'
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; a6 h" W; K4 I6 r5 V* ]'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'
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'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'5 t/ D8 ^" b2 ~; _, V7 r' X# ^
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Nikka - age 60 s' [; {: F% w
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)3 u- m' e/ [0 |+ n7 @! O
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. m# r) }% _5 i9 \ ^ o/ F( a/ G'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
. ^/ I: }- N. o. D% fNoelle - age 7 q! f' R. {9 b9 h% v! C: t" O3 [
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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'
1 |6 ?5 T, g4 R! p A6 KTommy - age 6" e7 D' q. A) c% u6 e$ Z. u3 O
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( N) K/ |; g- f3 Z$ ?( l* U- y'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
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. B/ x* P3 e8 w5 y( q6 h0 V- xHe was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'" s, ]# _. l2 J
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) J, N1 i+ j& I: k% g! t* e0 j'My mommy loves me more than anybody
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& U/ H' `' n2 H [4 E1 qYou don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'+ B" e( V" f1 ]' R% I4 Y
C lare - age 6
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3 I9 A* T, N# R/ W) X' n- R |'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'3 b( z7 n4 r) L6 w* C6 r# G
Elaine-age 5
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. @, g4 [2 Y$ {- e! v% v'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'7 n& {# `. p% Q0 a
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'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'4 @; o# w- {6 B3 U
Lauren - age 4
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" @- i3 j0 T0 L- X v' e8 x1 S, i! M'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)
' j9 {# u! C: O2 Y+ kKaren - age 7
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$ }( {- ~7 o/ o& Z! Z0 O" G2 l8 ~'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
1 C; ?8 ~3 ~2 z" L' a: C) WJessica - age 8
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And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
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/ k! n1 N! G# y- W% \% o8 Q; s. R9 mThe winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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! p7 x3 M I5 D* ]4 P; J) r) TUpon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,6 l; Y; m# k% @# c% _9 a
'Nothing, I just helped him cry' |
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