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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 9 }3 U5 B& G" T- h0 R# \7 A$ W
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 # b! K& \2 D8 M
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 6 D7 C9 ]( m1 G0 P% z7 F& ?6 h
- B7 F F' h* [- LThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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5 Z7 j' S7 F/ ^In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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( V1 u$ ` \3 Y3 oA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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