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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed 2 p- M1 D% B3 k1 x7 ^! x2 M& Q
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and + V8 `3 i- i% ~
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
2 z( Y) K: d0 c* [; g: Z0 T9 v& Wnursing home today. 3 x4 q$ A( g! J( g, P2 F
$ h7 V {6 f6 s3 y3 q# RHis wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
' Y [; A3 t4 D. \4 u rAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, ; q* U% ^7 C; z( l0 K8 t4 M$ Z4 a
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. ; ]4 ~# B0 j9 B1 }# f1 r+ C5 C9 n
+ G; `* D0 z8 m; vAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual ( W4 o; m1 {/ i) A, C
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having * ?8 h+ [/ q; x4 d7 j
just been presented with a new puppy. # p" ]# F& W+ F* G: i3 k
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." + h$ K4 A# q' ~( A
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. + i# p& @& g3 ^- U4 N
8 v3 y2 [& L, G" V* |"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." * U6 [" f7 C' ^$ p% o D3 Q
4 M" M; B4 q" K6 M9 yIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. , K' ~3 _0 _9 l+ P- n
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new 3 I( k2 W! z2 y O8 V
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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' k7 _1 W/ q8 L0 \# f& o1 Y4 vJust for this time in my life. 7 q9 S! z/ K N
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
; o% H% y: \( C1 l: W/ y9 Aaccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
- [- j8 t1 T4 a' |( a1 RI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: / d2 K" @/ h! ]1 R) @+ Z9 r" _& G
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1. Free your heart from hatred. 4 I$ A" S0 [; o% Z. @
2. Free your mind from worries. 2 l% M' S& G8 w6 j7 Y% ?
3. Live simply. % c, H$ ^4 b4 i/ m' Y
4. Give more.
6 }+ l e" G. ^. b 5. Expect less. |
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