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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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) t1 J+ W2 G! D/ AHis wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
: T |/ C+ r# f4 U: W' j4 RAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, - H: c8 a4 |; H* i% c" o& i' u
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. ; o K3 q* ]# T1 V6 K
# L8 k& R7 T4 j- x% {, R" m+ b/ VAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
/ S g$ d! A* z$ \description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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+ G& J* E5 r* L8 W7 x+ p) Z"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." " d, P/ h0 P6 X" t: b2 V0 X, g4 \
# |& { H/ i$ D4 x3 g+ }1 _8 A"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. ! y$ r7 g+ ^: l8 }7 r2 W9 r
# O+ s/ S% L1 P( S. Q9 {"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my % }7 a7 i; {2 O# G, h
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
9 b/ ~' W a6 o3 KI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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' A- Z B1 m! K+ ], SIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. 8 P1 u2 t( K0 s! a
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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and be thankful for the ones that do.
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9 @6 L& m& q1 Y8 g* YEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
* S) }' b8 ?1 Iday and all the happy memories I've stored away. 6 W* k3 s5 s. N: I. o$ x
8 D" x' J) |/ H% m/ g& G: x; }7 RJust for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. 1 c& ~! O0 _0 [9 {
4 H, w, \. [7 J" j8 u6 K& NSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank & f) g2 G) a N g; u# i
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. ; U! h* y+ x6 d) s
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
+ B; }! D% U% g( c: p5 }! u: S 2. Free your mind from worries.
& V) J, i# u' j- X/ s 3. Live simply. 6 E! K: H/ g( w8 R# M
4. Give more. 6 j2 W- j: L7 ?& M" ?7 t
5. Expect less. |
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