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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a 1 u4 n( J2 b" j" A, R
nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
& n# h, b, {) R- z! J \After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
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( d: @4 @: }, s0 k, Z8 K hAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual - |$ X e- T% D# ^8 ^0 d
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been : |0 g! v# P. e( D9 K" g1 t
hung on his window. 7 y5 z& N7 G" U3 o- u
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." " Q+ i! b8 ~$ y) p
" y H1 ~( b8 e# @0 I"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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a' O$ w" k1 E+ ~8 N; X, ["Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 3 O+ l |* @7 T. d2 I9 Z
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. ' A- v9 s/ M9 [0 R
# }4 J" C" m9 J7 z0 [I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I 4 }+ {8 p' H9 H: q" \
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed + N0 {: J* h' R+ O
and be thankful for the ones that do.
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4 D% h7 _. g" X3 P: l9 h5 ^( f- t( WEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new " ]/ ? B: D$ k1 y2 s2 X: I
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life. 3 I: E5 q! U0 J
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: $ o4 [6 S4 L% M
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
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% Z T2 b9 k( T" ~ 3. Live simply.
, s% w6 `5 P9 v0 w0 C7 R& X% { 4. Give more.
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