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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. 8 H8 Y/ u* j! }9 T) Q
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, ( u1 E7 ?6 W8 U1 ~' B+ z3 S
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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( j c* Q8 v. {8 r, A0 }As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 0 K `* O, O: d
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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1 S3 r) C! W! a, {6 z5 K5 l"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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+ p7 Z" g: K- O8 ^8 D"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 2 o; Q. i. T3 E0 ]9 C
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how t$ w; T" _; U, V- x: a
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." & {% L- w0 N! V. s0 y \2 }; @3 ?
( ?) k: y1 V; _( ?# z$ VIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. , h( ?* G6 a) d7 E8 b/ ^
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I 3 ~! {( |2 j" J: i- D
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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, O( I, J0 H1 u. xEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new v& J8 ?7 t5 p) S
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: / H6 b! j4 w7 r3 b4 u
- K8 Y7 Y8 d2 t6 j. ?7 \ 1. Free your heart from hatred.
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3. Live simply. 3 o( B- X9 n7 \8 ]. g( P
4. Give more.
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