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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. ( n5 Z( h# J, h d6 h
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, 7 U+ ]2 k6 V: u
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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( b( D; C+ D4 H+ [As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual ; K! j/ J4 c7 s- I. A( _: M1 P( r
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my + O0 E9 V0 F5 ^7 ]
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. ( {# g" o" z @ E
N) O) O$ J0 W; DI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I + Y7 f& d" b' [# y, W
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
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! L$ G8 R' f% Z# xJust for this time in my life. 3 K& b6 A+ t" R. x D
; F% `! t& v; ROld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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! T! M2 W0 I5 YI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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, l( X1 {3 b# {% Z& a 1. Free your heart from hatred.
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3. Live simply.
+ ^$ J7 `% N6 G0 v 4. Give more. ( r1 `, l: N5 m
5. Expect less. |
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