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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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& f( [9 b( @3 ~There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.8 b+ y& |+ _+ r
% x0 ?% o7 G, qThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.3 Q! g* J, |4 P- x0 B1 f
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.- [' F- c9 ^* d) M
3 q$ b: H) c6 O% g+ ^/ U/ vPretty good.: C1 ~2 | S5 x7 _+ |
- d0 _$ A4 j/ v& d* G8 wIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.% a" v/ \# I/ I8 C
9 D ~& s+ e7 W" hGreat! How are you doing?4 f L* \6 r# j4 H
4 u. ?6 f: G2 V+ dThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there." T5 h4 r. ~8 i0 {
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.1 h9 h% g: `2 n& t$ B. b2 {! A3 j
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I've been better.1 _: S9 _8 V8 `. s$ g
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:7 v6 ^% D, ]9 S: `3 v
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- t$ @) S* q% j2 dB: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.6 G2 {& A O: s: {; h, L: B
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How's it going?( J, a4 V a) T2 R+ [
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well." C* D- w* l* H
# V1 V! x: L" `Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?". c5 e" {0 V+ K
9 a+ Z9 @. i( WIt's going well. / U* ^# d& R) j7 Z+ d1 D
' n" f" J' M; cThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. " v& H6 \4 t s5 b+ G0 p8 H
- T% F5 e$ ]$ O( S+ qWhat's up?
8 b* p0 U% ^) E' O1 I6 `This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."8 T: L( F" p, j# L9 @) }
9 j) u4 c1 t: _5 Z1 G" G2 s$ GNot a lot.! f$ s: h$ H+ r: U" j) k+ Z2 Z
c9 |2 W1 I# `- [& p2 a; {6 rThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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! u* P# i- H& J; BOh, just the usual.0 q" H- x# ^3 t7 W9 @! d
5 i# s" v& J7 e5 q' L TAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!5 y, ?5 R; |* E, h
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.+ H- Q; b. o( F- S! {1 U% T P
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What's happening?6 Q `' }% v7 P$ K) n8 M. [* W3 F& f: {
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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