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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.+ [8 B7 n; ]: u& y$ e
8 X2 ~# M+ j2 S: ZYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"3 s/ `/ H M: b, V2 U/ I" _6 U w, D5 r
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' G; K: r7 R9 z# B6 k' F" I; nFine.3 [8 d& I+ X0 V- b
+ i4 g$ M( d; l! |2 GThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.) q' F; }9 H! R% ^% q
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Not bad." S9 n' P; z! M0 n! \* n* ]2 a
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".4 R8 K- D0 i* U
! f5 }* Y2 `) iFine, thanks.
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; {% C4 f2 I7 aThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.; C/ p3 t+ w) D4 G& O( J4 Y: [# d5 I
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Very well, thanks. W/ M! }: i' f9 f1 H! v" |
% s/ |( E, S) `& iA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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- ]1 I# a* C( W, t8 Z8 qIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.: f! R: r3 l, T5 g; W$ {
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Great! How are you doing?" ]% O' T- M! Q+ [8 Y, ?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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3 _+ F! j4 [, F( u! K8 zI'm hanging in there.
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$ a9 ^! A' ^9 g9 E6 d2 AThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.0 L. f: x o; L, @
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I've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:, U7 j+ s) i4 n$ o! \/ V# b
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A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?" D3 Y* _- c1 `- t. N
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off., y2 c! Q' i; N( E1 v' Y
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This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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9 ^. F6 x. M3 X8 V2 F7 e [" g5 fHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"! z4 h4 |& M+ ?3 Y+ n* J& c
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:4 _& N; M( b5 e% F
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Nothing much.
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; A3 n+ O! H3 _3 j3 x# n9 CThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."" M0 D3 g# W# f
?' v" W' z* j: m% {/ s5 G. N4 ]" b7 rNot a lot.
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/ P: R# a! h3 b* S- hThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.% N/ J8 P$ c" y" d, ~
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. O' o# e% u5 A; H' v2 bThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.) N2 N. ^& \9 Z$ Z) A
3 ~6 r4 r% y$ L: T" WOh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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! E4 ~% b/ H) v6 L6 R( E- |/ yJust the same old same old.1 Z: Q. Q( L) u, h6 C$ |
6 u V# z. Z( ^This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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) F& n, o$ q0 \- s/ _0 q: W, `; i4 iOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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7 r! b! X& S/ @$ c- A0 h/ R& m2 wYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.0 z q* }$ Z3 D5 Y/ N3 ~
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What's happening?
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