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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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1 \6 _7 O9 K+ Q, c) lThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.4 y* w: l% l4 Z- @1 i
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"' R$ `9 b+ W) h7 D+ n7 a$ X- Q
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How are you?
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.
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; c6 B# o/ h( j0 g9 J0 z6 pThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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S1 n3 w1 U9 r1 }9 I% Y/ aVery well, thanks.6 I3 `$ ^9 P, }8 d
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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" E' _1 p% L+ j: Z7 SPretty good.
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- v! j4 K4 t5 h0 Q$ p! PIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.9 q. r k/ C2 B1 t) c. P0 ^0 t r5 {
0 @) [7 J' Y5 ?2 BGreat! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.8 {9 \; [+ B: k6 I' A( Q' I
3 Y) S# C& V9 |, v. z% r; [I'm hanging in there.: U9 q. A" m3 X2 a# h' U" G
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.3 B/ w9 J$ e7 r. X# R) O! `
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I've been better.
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+ v% i% f3 D i" l9 Q& mPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:, j; R4 V0 d, C2 V4 \
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A: How are you?
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/ ~# M5 P8 s9 B0 nA: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?
' F5 i' m# n: @" iThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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: O: b( n) T1 T* f( G8 pHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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& C1 X( x2 M- v: w% yThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 8 v+ V4 y% |* g, x: b8 K8 |
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What's up?
L0 O5 s$ s9 \, ~6 s5 ^$ vThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:9 K* c7 f U1 J# j: F( {
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Nothing much.8 | l, E8 s( L
& x y1 q) K. I5 a. h" Y' u6 ?This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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( S% L0 [2 l$ ]Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.) Y! S* g* G0 [9 i
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.
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; `( |4 Q" s% j( g, GAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.9 n* I9 L8 w* a" `; W- T4 A
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!/ r4 ]: y! Z7 f0 B( m3 \3 |* y
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.; J( @5 v) w# P& q) V
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What's happening?
4 z4 |1 Y+ p, ]$ S: o; hThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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