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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters0 x- ~2 n. s0 m5 C6 d
- t3 X6 F9 m k8 qThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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* Z+ J( E* Q) S6 pYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation." S8 E* g8 s H8 R) O# C% Z
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Not bad.4 q7 S+ x9 t# M# n& {4 u
4 ]/ Z; ^$ e1 d+ v+ T2 iThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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! A& z. N, h, O4 L. ~This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.1 @0 C( y8 t" @* q- |0 A. W) g& q
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.5 U6 {1 X/ b" |' [( E4 _
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Pretty good.' z! X0 o) f( d) W! X Q& y8 ]
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.% }5 I) a9 h) [( ]
2 o/ W$ U9 i- d3 n6 ?7 LGreat! How are you doing?
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% P. _7 L" k& VThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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% v8 c S8 L; ]; M. ?! mThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.( T# X( b" n& C, B% m& x
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I've been better.8 V! a8 Q3 h$ ~7 F
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:! t* { b d# Y9 @* l) g
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A: How are you?3 C: C; b2 t. O: P3 h
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B: I've been better.
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4 l9 C5 e4 L# n8 `B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?
9 n) x/ b& e, r8 ~+ M( i kThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.( s2 ]& s `8 g( l; g
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"( b% ]' s- Y4 a8 ^! }
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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. w* Q, @0 U5 P. e w- n, l# T) N9 FNothing much.; }' T0 f8 D) p5 b
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."5 ]; l) R# l7 u7 F( p& m5 P
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Not a lot.
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* ?; Q9 U7 E" ~& rThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.+ ^1 c4 f7 Q) p; R0 E' I) ^
0 i: q4 ` U8 p' y8 d' \" ]* bNothing.
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- I6 K6 R0 u p$ E) J5 LThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.1 U% ~) |! V- i* y9 {* n
2 l7 {/ { p( O/ [$ ]! y$ n4 lOh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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, O- u+ ]2 z" e! H0 LOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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% w: h4 x! z. f4 kYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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; i8 f3 _% h: ^2 X0 f7 @- YWhat's happening?
S! o* p; b5 l' R/ D, sThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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