买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. : y6 z# a$ V! x" Y; v( a! N 5 B+ y) H0 ?8 M8 d# O2 O) g$ _不送钱,鲜花一般送在入土的墓地里。 ( Q6 z0 b3 Z+ J( e9 M