买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. + k( N* I5 k' e7 Y" ^" s& Z1 o
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