Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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6 |& j, G+ U6 o% e( F7 yWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

, e; k3 C  ]( h/ e1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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& S0 X6 x0 ~* R; y2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

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, V- {) t9 Z. J. L4 bLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
5 a5 |6 L% g6 g  rFrom no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
% p1 S' D* y9 I7 T$ v% X) Z' N# d. U
1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
; e; J  ]$ L1 oTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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