Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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) o7 }# {- C" l2 D7 Q; gWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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/ k0 K, R1 I/ T$ o) Q' Z1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

! ?5 g2 A: A3 C1 c) x! L4 W4 l, _2.        Speak up when she’s good
! G) L, o" T5 F5 K6 T: MIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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$ c2 F' W+ W4 [- l3 {2 f1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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