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~SOMETIMES~8 a+ o& W1 z* b
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Sometimes people come into your life" {/ l7 O: Y+ C5 D) @2 F
you know right away that they were meant to be there,) C% X. @ E& w: }
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,# M4 P9 Y& n) _, g
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.( o, p2 i% b# U1 g s" |
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* p. E) v5 T$ s% x+ k- X3 ?9 K ^You never know who these people may be6 e) ~ k& Z, ]/ O
but when you lock eyes with them,0 ~! O4 M% @ S$ x: O! M+ F
you know at that very moment,
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3 u0 ?! w/ A; JThey will affect your life in some profound way0 p- S% s* p0 e2 k O' W4 g/ v( u% o( L: r
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!8 v+ _, a5 \. K" o! X
They are there for the reason you need them to be.7 }1 ?. q" V2 f& j" X7 e. @
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.* A4 o+ W' T. w8 e% w( ]% F3 @4 _: O
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.. Z1 M5 W$ u% b6 A5 Z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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" n6 x( \/ Z- n0 _+ hWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,5 a- m+ m. _* u) t' g' \
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
2 z* Q# S6 r, C7 B uThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
/ d) O3 l2 z! R# mAnd now it is time for you to move on.: ?6 D1 ^" d; W) q
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* G7 r5 t1 @$ o( ]+ pThen people come into your life for a REASON
* Z# P# j# z/ L2 {- q8 Y. o+ `Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
& ?3 W- J Z2 o7 J9 H4 vThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
0 ?1 ~# \* r! M1 A3 [0 ~# z& L, ?& UThey may teach you something you have never done.4 t! ^- ]! R! @) ~& q
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.$ k- \* K8 s1 r% b
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦2 p: U! ~5 m4 {4 ?" t
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
1 d: a* [, X. E! W- d2 mYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
9 l+ |/ e3 I: ]+ D) U! [& u. g6 ?Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.3 N5 A+ S E+ G' p% {5 n* v
Everything happens for a reason., u7 |1 C3 c+ c- Y3 o
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.7 Z( E' n l% |& x4 F) n6 Q
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
9 d- ?9 [0 X2 ?/ t2 Y$ Yand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.( y p9 g& H) M3 ~% q, w, C% Q
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4 f/ X3 r5 w+ t5 |% bIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
# I6 n; k6 J N1 W2 JYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,4 }9 f% H6 b$ j1 S8 p L4 \
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% B9 u6 R* y" Q# T o! o6 A, P# }
for they have helped you learn about trust
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. T7 v9 x5 g8 W; t, AIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
2 e2 G, `1 J# E W/ dTry to love them back unconditionally,
2 b: D/ ^3 g* enot only because they love you, but because in a way,
4 ^! l. c! e0 B# Cthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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6 D" u* {$ E% i3 q- U0 {+ n' W- sThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,, \# B; s2 E# C8 u( e% d5 ?% F
, a1 o: C! D0 \and a time to every purpose under the sun.1 F u( n0 ^# S( q, @
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
* I, U1 `( P+ d2 jand a time to pluck up that which is planted...") T% e9 R; B5 H5 N, i5 c
God's grace is as a healing hand.
. {; m# ^" X0 ]1 o! mAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,/ O( @1 A: E+ f9 _
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
8 G1 |1 t" {+ j" @/ Ywill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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