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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to# r, A( W- X0 `
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear* S1 @% F* F: r; H6 P% V
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what3 l2 o2 E* }; l f
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first( B* F: j. y7 c# m9 P' d6 i
names:
+ o2 B K& o2 k1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
/ P4 P& s0 ?" r$ `* x, P2) The second second: Don't think about what to. v: J, X4 ?! v% U
say—listen for the name.
5 ~/ w7 p. g0 }" Y6 y' ?. l: v3 c3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
% |7 G$ B3 l1 l! ~4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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7 R: b7 v0 o/ F+ s/ I5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
' l+ r/ Y- L# a8 `+ |* cend of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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