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Five Seconds to Success in remembering people's names

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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to5 @7 E- z8 Y  G6 L) z/ B( Y
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear( l$ Q" H2 g. [* z/ H# o- N
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what" |/ n  s4 m9 O* G
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.6 B/ Q) T3 j: ~  ^  r7 E. V& Q
2) The second second: Don't think about what to  |# q( v1 D& b, r3 k$ ^
say—listen for the name.
5 W% T( O' {9 @% B2 d6 N3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.4 s* j. Y4 `4 m; b
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
8 D' G3 O7 o2 _7 a' k- }with the same name.$ _+ k0 A* A( {- @$ d# L( e
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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$ g& {/ m) B! _0 ~2 X* {. l---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>
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