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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 , O3 F* i* L9 e% B0 x R. z' b
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 ) R7 j) d9 {3 c& [0 T; J
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 / B9 }; Q+ U' q+ P9 b5 b+ F
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There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. ) A9 ]# m4 R# q6 G, l6 r
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In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.$ p: d7 q3 D; s; N5 F w
T/ K3 u0 d, ZA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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