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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed & G0 x1 e) Y1 Y0 H6 j- v) j; G. {; p
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and 5 P4 I3 i$ I7 v+ b& P0 d. }
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
# }( x$ z) q& U" v/ O# r( }" v! TAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
. s9 a1 E" M% i* Z' @1 F$ D5 G5 O* {he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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/ m! M1 U# `+ X* C6 ]8 HAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 6 f" Z4 @4 j2 S4 s% g
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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0 r5 y1 a5 m8 ~"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." 6 m6 X& c) J' C. Z" ~; ^" @5 P8 G
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. , Y. y9 A1 Y$ Y* U. U* Q5 C4 {
- n* v7 k9 [9 s ?3 D"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. * X, d* ?3 @, s7 C
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
4 s, L8 O4 `, p, Jday and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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8 ~$ ~) _. A7 z) ^4 z, LJust for this time in my life.
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, x; ~. U4 P: p4 e- N+ q- ~) COld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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8 d- t1 U* l: ASo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank $ b+ U& M+ R: Y! ?( t4 z
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
6 g! x. ]# Z9 S2 f/ q+ g9 b$ CI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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' n6 g& A6 R; y: f; q 1. Free your heart from hatred.
7 B/ c* h; m9 q' v+ _& |& w 2. Free your mind from worries. 0 v8 N9 _. R- S$ b7 M* q; Z# M0 ^" `
3. Live simply.
6 W4 {. ]. z# e. y% I$ d 4. Give more.
/ e; o) `7 z: ~( k1 h 5. Expect less. |
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