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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.3 S5 }( c) u( d' r- c
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"9 i9 M2 p" B( ?- y
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How are you?& S& g# f5 f; K
Fine.
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3 D5 F& R: ^# y. {This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.8 O2 t4 J+ t) y7 V) w" O" q
$ ]' j7 M, ^; e( sNot bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".9 f+ \6 s: v0 D; @
1 Q# j+ ? t1 @+ [0 Q A( ^, P" OFine, thanks.9 }5 `+ L. K9 i5 w! C
8 E. X0 g7 f2 H4 g* qThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.4 {% K, n2 x7 K$ i8 @
% P& j0 W* T n1 N' H% b, c( lVery well, thanks.# |5 k2 v& P8 p2 F6 m
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.1 W5 q! s' T/ F
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Pretty good.
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8 Q9 t8 M% u( x: T% B( ]( LIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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/ k4 K9 W! b9 `4 k. |7 B/ oGreat! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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5 x& t5 @+ C) l5 ` C. FI'm hanging in there.
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! e) B/ F) i# ^, x' OThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.7 ^0 p9 c% N6 [2 Q9 A I1 E8 I
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I've been better. |# J0 O: O- p! z8 G. t$ y+ |: g
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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' C w1 T. x7 J8 X& v; ?3 ]" }A: How are you?5 E( P/ y+ s9 {6 C. r
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"' x @# h/ v$ u) @8 P5 c
5 Y8 D$ _' f" t( U& e2 R3 VIt's going well. $ U7 ~% `. \, N* U
4 P. e i4 ^: P" e: j5 R/ \2 r1 {This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. / L4 m( [1 |9 b' {+ z {8 x# M
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What's up?4 q8 n6 K# F5 W1 s! k& {
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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; r8 ^$ U/ O, ?7 s/ o" ENothing.
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( f! e5 Q! `0 Y& VThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.0 K* c) R: R; T
- A' N+ z1 x7 W5 DAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.$ |# D& u& r" N2 P( p6 |
+ d0 ^0 q5 T' {( s/ |Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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- C2 p- C) E. V: m& K" pOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!. k0 V d1 z- ]7 {0 e. E5 I
8 ^2 v0 y' l4 ^) Q9 BYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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: x% q& Z9 L+ k7 O0 w5 bWhat's happening?
- p$ L7 w3 P, UThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.# n6 [$ n/ u1 \. v6 ?
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