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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters0 ^& I- S7 i5 N; W1 |' u
( `* t7 V/ ~- ]/ V7 `$ HThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.! v$ i0 Z N5 S6 B" }) b/ ?
/ F' V/ D$ p+ r/ h5 ZYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"" E. c6 P" F( v, A9 { {/ D0 j6 m
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How are you?9 X' B* k3 U& p$ L" v4 J7 `
Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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+ N7 {$ R1 y* LNot bad.* n3 r. W$ M4 N
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.! {1 a& X' x* c6 N4 `1 ~8 D1 d
6 w0 r) j8 E9 w2 a. u- P+ K8 {This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.. k/ j: b& n, O0 S8 |
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.) }( r( N' \ L2 c# H; b
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Pretty good.: X6 l$ J) ?7 D- W" T
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.. L( w! ]/ l, `3 t
! p, t. j! f1 e# U# gGreat! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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) x$ Y) C. t6 ?I'm hanging in there.
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m `1 K/ c2 \' `6 C. Z9 }% GThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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+ Z" ~) A; o2 \5 EI've been better.
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1 h9 o% `. l$ Q- f+ e, l5 `7 N! mPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?( X- m, D5 J4 h! g' M/ B4 S9 E
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B: I've been better.
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6 q( k& [+ {! o% nB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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8 q# G, t, x v* W. [) c1 VHow's it going?
* O' g; g9 D! Y0 \( }6 YThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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$ T" ?% _4 v* h" I% i9 }' M: |What's up?5 y+ H4 b( v3 g+ V; X7 W; u8 V# ~
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:" a) h$ U+ O4 E: V
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Nothing much.
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; s6 ]4 P' w1 y6 F) t" e) N! kThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."+ e- R9 p: g4 J" j7 w# J6 A* V
" G* f( Z/ J% b6 L7 ?- A7 @; [6 qNot a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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/ @/ K- V* W! HThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.% B$ u3 A2 u7 U; f5 v/ Q+ c% |! w+ ?
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Oh, just the usual.
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7 D) P( H0 u3 G" g U! [( dAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!1 D; U6 Z7 E9 N8 A7 B0 }% j/ w
- c. j! g( O* U0 EYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?* P5 K" @( y) l3 W: X4 A
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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