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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters2 X) ^# W% r: }. v ~4 [
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?". _) @6 v5 v1 w2 z1 `2 d
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.6 e9 V( k/ P" m4 T7 _/ {( k C
! b! }5 I3 X q& K. dNot bad.8 U3 P& V- E" \1 U4 J, |$ M* B
/ T$ j0 P4 J8 L8 _( fThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.1 _/ m/ X5 \0 S+ F8 M
3 P, d7 X- T2 @& b8 gVery well, thanks.. q+ ]# D' Z% W' i9 R; _
# {( X: j" T1 t5 \ b, EA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.6 u, i9 [. r; T' N& x$ r
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Pretty good.
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3 z) P% c9 ?% [6 f L% ~" v; O6 _If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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; \! t0 c: L6 C4 ^( @$ CThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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, W* w( d- H- c% }# @I'm hanging in there.
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6 F4 c% K' n ^; gThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.
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$ k, P9 k7 t) o. K6 l* {: YPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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, Q; B9 I7 F3 U6 x( ?5 W, Q& gA: How are you?+ w% G6 R" n( D' N _" E
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B: I've been better.5 r0 U" n$ A3 Z8 L
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A: What's wrong?
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& Y- a; |6 v3 s! ?* C3 dB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?
6 }5 Z" z' ?+ {$ K% ^$ NThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.: z( D% h- Y. _; ~, G2 Z
$ K6 [7 W9 @% y" T( oHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. 2 W# q3 b: {% u+ Q& G
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?
6 t( }$ Y$ N# t0 jThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."6 v+ n" Y; f) E8 ?$ c! Z
; C" _& \& Y# ~# N. m8 z" y* tNot a lot.
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! z h* F' `+ e+ N" J, sThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.! b) U" O4 j8 I# H
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.3 j1 }/ R9 B2 d. y
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Oh, just the usual.
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4 U( x) e E/ I2 y6 L" O& MAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.$ O I$ t* [% \% V i
. r: ^6 e3 X1 U$ Q" hJust the same old same old.$ Q! t; c" i2 I5 i/ |
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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# S, s/ ~% {* VOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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. y0 }7 f' @- O5 F3 q4 qYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.8 ^+ |, h: O) H1 d
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