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& h8 r- O5 u9 II have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
9 v8 `: E( j" @9 Q: f* T; _; Z" MHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money 1 p' C# |1 H6 @0 x1 K
for youth at risk programs. . ]7 b+ A3 k; @) H0 j
* E* ^( ]- n/ w9 vThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 3 h& b# k4 V$ }, }7 y
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
5 W$ j) T6 k, x+ j" V6 ]: Kman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
/ r& y a% A. \( z& P$ F/ |to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
: E4 T: z0 ?0 V$ O/ Zhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. ! v% _) c7 T+ K0 \( T+ K
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted 9 X) r- Y4 @# ]
to be and do when he grew up. - O1 q& }3 c$ p% y
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday " K9 }$ B* w" x) F3 ^3 G
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 9 V, O, z$ g+ a
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
' F; U% a4 L/ I$ o Hthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot 2 U) L$ n* {! f: h- [- @
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
: q7 j2 _1 ^7 r/ n. w* v% G+ ^( k( C6 @handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
3 T$ h& j6 e8 R! _! COn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after ! A# Z1 J8 w9 e/ Y( x _
class.'
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 6 K% V/ L5 f8 b
`Why did I receive an F?' 4 l* h. y$ |% `
, `! ^! C( [' p) s p'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
- ]7 e! f4 u: k% f P8 y4 T) eYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. & ^0 s1 b) g4 ?* `" I6 B9 K) Y4 g' H1 i: s
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 2 p- P% ]3 N: o
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to % g, f+ d2 B4 E, d
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
8 ^# i% w3 [3 a. \added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
# I: w. B- Q$ areconsider your grade.’ ( o" e4 u3 h) \. w- M+ D/ t
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father 5 g; X/ e$ y* m
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your * M8 V) s% i3 R2 T7 p+ X
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 8 R4 x$ H, @, G3 b
you.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same % m7 t# L; E! h9 c( F9 m, ^8 `. z: j
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
0 Q. x3 p/ H3 w5 ]5 X, o2 k. T% W2 Nkeep my dream.'' 0 u" O5 l: i, @* @
0 c; M! n( o% v4 [; r" i* HMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
' h. H- l t4 K5 Sbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of 5 k# U+ R" \2 f6 L$ j
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 5 ~9 J5 w) k5 D. i$ n6 o! `
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago - d1 x" _; m7 r' N. o- _
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
. m2 R. `" Z; s& f' A! S# d) g/ _$ m OWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this 6 ?- P2 R/ T7 s4 t ^
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During + T& u$ d, Z1 i) _9 E0 c0 Q/ Y1 l
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
/ {* U9 @: H! [3 `+ }& [' `4 lnot to give up on yours.’'
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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