Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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5 ~5 s  y; C5 ?- q6 kWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

6 V' o2 I2 c0 e7 V  o1 |+ H6 L8 K1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
4 x/ p5 E- {7 N! [4 P9 m& h" [Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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( H0 ]; P& V; C* G6 m7 j2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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2 G7 U7 y& d' c/ z1 o3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
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2 Y; ^3 G6 q) A7 mWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
  [8 T7 a/ g" X, s* L4 t. A
1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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