Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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( y$ w3 x- @  d, q7 t- u' s5 N! rWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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+ P, F5 C- |$ Q/ ^# F1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
) {3 u; {- ?0 u( p; rTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
) O$ }7 L. w) e4 Y9 N5 C/ n/ oIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
# I+ v% c" F6 O! SFrom no to yes

0 V- b$ e3 z! w( E3 K2 T5 l  @( `While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
: {( r; R) b; ]: F1 @% K" h* `# mTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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