Stop saying no to your toddlers

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From no to yes

, u7 k" G3 B) d/ x% I" iWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
2 ]' g1 y- n0 F  O+ uTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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; O6 ?' G/ z- j2.        Speak up when she’s good
, [4 s7 w7 F& g0 I$ E# PIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

1 @$ d$ g, }5 V' V% h3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
" t7 s2 B9 l9 q' i3 k; qFrom no to yes

8 m7 i: M! W# ~While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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4 W+ P# ^* R/ s  E8 M1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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