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~SOMETIMES~
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; W# n6 U9 T# c1 M& qSometimes people come into your life
+ ~+ U2 @. K0 f3 tyou know right away that they were meant to be there, i0 q- G8 p7 t. L5 K6 A
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
, M" K! I9 ?* \+ s, Hor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be% \# E4 N! r% H# C; g# _
but when you lock eyes with them,* A9 T) m7 t5 d, g, {
you know at that very moment,: Q" f% H! {3 r
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They will affect your life in some profound way, @3 d$ Y; e' W/ U8 U7 Z$ ?
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!, }4 i* i3 e( c* i& ^! z+ s
They are there for the reason you need them to be.: M- j7 e# J5 y" M6 Q% h8 b8 c
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,6 b; v6 Y; ^8 Y; h/ j
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.' l0 D3 G0 L1 b; t; |" ~0 S
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 |8 @2 B) v5 b0 A
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered." a5 t+ E/ t( Y# d z! H0 p! Y2 o/ P
And now it is time for you to move on.6 b0 ?) O9 Q7 Q+ [9 Z
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7 f( a! w1 I% O9 P; i9 N: Z7 `Then people come into your life for a REASON% T) m" b E" n9 E/ K' U
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.; T2 v- O' {, ?4 z2 g D
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
; v2 G. o: a9 Q: v- ]! ]They may teach you something you have never done.
* h5 @. Y- V+ U! \5 `They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.$ D2 h0 n& Y$ ~' I" \2 k1 x9 Z
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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! i3 b+ A6 P6 h8 g3 v9 a5 ]6 a/ PLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
( S+ O p+ Z& S) TYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
- b; [/ p4 J0 c, A4 dPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.4 S% n4 [- A n
Everything happens for a reason.
! T5 f. s- @6 q+ qNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 M e" v6 A" y) J
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
8 B/ l _; ^6 B7 v, o. p4 R. aand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,* L) w+ w( N" Y- h
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
' w% v5 o$ l0 LIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
. C# e+ R u: F6 @- C" ?7 afor they have helped you learn about trust! W" ~' E1 J& E) o; H1 S M
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
) X" N9 }9 p m8 C1 l D, b, zIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,2 O5 x W6 i) i; i6 u/ U) a5 I
Try to love them back unconditionally,
3 M0 @. X) S4 f7 a' `$ O- rnot only because they love you, but because in a way,8 N9 w* ^ j u5 E, M
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.0 j9 v4 m" Y# `/ p r0 u2 G" a
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
) T: I+ W! o; H) d6 [8 }) ZA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
+ i/ F- n1 F# `5 r' ]and a time to pluck up that which is planted..." K% @. S+ N; |' g, V
God's grace is as a healing hand.% e- \* t9 y( V, |9 a" Z) i
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
6 \) u$ |$ O. W. Ithe warm memories and love for those we have lost
+ S/ z$ p! N( Xwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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