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Sometimes people come into your life2 Y% x# D2 D4 E, I, C9 j+ u 
you know right away that they were meant to be there,# N/ }, |) k$ t) t 
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,; d9 _( W5 E! [3 B 
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be. 
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2 G  O. [, j% K0 a* ?$ VYou never know who these people may be2 w: N( s# i( e1 Y, E9 G  b 
but when you lock eyes with them, 
. n+ i6 J2 `- e7 r% m5 j% Oyou know at that very moment,' R. H7 x3 I- k4 L 
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They will affect your life in some profound way- a8 S( n0 Q+ g, t/ S 
 
! T5 G- h) s+ A2 ^6 {8 B. s" H; h% fThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!: f4 I  W- U: l 
They are there for the reason you need them to be.+ d% a9 W& }! `/ u, Y* ` 
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,' n# [* a1 v9 J% A  g( \* R) s( \% M 
 
) A- w3 X0 v) W5 fThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.1 c. m7 T0 F0 }, N7 r- ` 
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away. 
1 b# u: G. W3 L  Z$ e$ ?+ `Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.6 j% e. @% }/ J5 c 
 
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What we must realize is that our need has been met, 
8 z+ V+ j! z" a1 hour desire fulfilled, their work is done. 
+ r7 m' U( U% X, b$ E# J6 {0 NThe prayer you sent up has been answered.0 r. H1 n) k) h7 G3 K  e3 Z 
And now it is time for you to move on.& E7 q! T, H& |0 N& |' Z 
 
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Then people come into your life for a REASON, j5 P2 w# I/ i& u9 V9 ~" O7 M" c 
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn." }3 r! g" R6 l 
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.0 s& p9 n  y- T& W* y; t 
They may teach you something you have never done.) B( J$ b% ]/ x8 _! a8 d5 n 
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. 
- H2 W9 H# r& v7 Z% wBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦ 
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% E. ]& g& s- _1 s" [, e& n' ?LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:. c0 R+ G5 Y: t$ V2 u: j! ^$ x 
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,# r( u. [5 M5 }) x5 m 
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life. 
' P  T. l5 Y" iEverything happens for a reason.3 v: n) \- @: L& r& F5 o& n- g 
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”. 
, N: c$ ?1 @& iIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ n! y, d) F- G 
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. 
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6 F7 u  |, v" N4 C. B! o2 S% PIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,5 P- f. N. w9 s. \, L 
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ t' _6 q- `: J9 a3 e  Y 
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,3 D0 c. P5 ]( H 
for they have helped you learn about trust9 _8 I5 O% {7 V& G2 \3 _ 
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.& l6 j+ m2 T; x- h6 y6 j; A 
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,* q& }5 D$ K9 c4 @# B; }* U 
Try to love them back unconditionally, 
; Z$ G5 g+ {* S: d' H! E. Xnot only because they love you, but because in a way, 
, l; s/ N+ K8 ]  ]7 \they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things." T$ U) S; a' L. } 
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season, 
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and a time to every purpose under the sun. 
& m% D. }1 j: o! y8 ?; R6 `& |4 kA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, 
5 [* y  S' u; U! nand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."# b  X) V1 z- J% q 
God's grace is as a healing hand. 
9 p6 S0 k. y3 y- J( w: A1 a8 G7 ~As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,* m& t$ t% |, ^/ x0 P: B 
the warm memories and love for those we have lost 
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