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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 7 j; M d: e8 q* L1 p( P+ i4 m
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 ) q% [ U- r8 B8 a3 [" i( a9 e% i0 R
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 1 O2 p2 h& [& e7 f% x* D, ^8 j
6 R; x7 w( r3 X2 WThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. 1 C3 r% o k' o5 _$ f& K+ C
4 v ~- N o0 m& D: ?5 {" M; zIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.; Z% [0 ^7 d+ J/ N
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A reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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