i am reading another good book by Gary Chapman " The Five Love Languages of Children". Act of service is just a part of parenting (very important during 0-6 years old), but in China for this case, it's almost everything of parenting...lol
本帖最后由 marie 于 2014-10-13 17:55 编辑 ( i& q( \: B2 L% {) ?5 N# Y- _8 c
% |7 [6 t; I, i* E中国人家庭很多孩子不做家務,懒人,很多中国人学习好, why 搞不定 工作? ! x8 v t l* O: s我让孩子自己去面对一切,我们separate 生活, 让孩子自己去锻炼. follow up 孩子," Y! m; a$ u' V g) ~0 w$ c5 Y# H) H0 e
孩子不喜歡,自己活着真累.最重要的是使孩子成为对社会有用的人; Y4 V+ K2 }% m" | V5 p
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我见some chinese phd, master, 2-3 degrees, almost 40, never working.