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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a ; p" a: w4 b$ a& q. Q E
nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. : f3 G2 w8 `0 V) y2 l* ]2 s' I
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, 1 Q; E7 ^4 Z* Q5 T7 |8 ~ n. U0 J
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. 5 u1 \3 D. u, b: N, Z
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual - j0 K8 J, G3 u7 Z) s$ d
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been , i) A- _* n1 q$ l$ e6 c
hung on his window.
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' G; W* i' A2 Q0 l* O. V"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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2 K% w' |+ s- u' z& `# \9 D"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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8 w. v# ~2 [+ s+ r! X! c9 {"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. , ], [4 Q) b9 a# ?8 ?
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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& c4 e9 t4 B+ u6 j! O3 {It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. 4 n' v- m# w, [* G3 X+ Y
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I $ Z' v0 W" t. |# p1 m
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed - u0 W6 f# k$ d& t7 @
and be thankful for the ones that do. 5 O2 J5 x7 \- o4 s. a* ` g8 j
, N8 X/ Y4 B( V F: I0 OEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new " A1 a r4 {1 E1 c2 _& T
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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2 m9 N2 L7 Q, a zJust for this time in my life. % V) s0 w/ o- `; i
' \# q. j: q+ b# c' T2 ^- l. XOld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. ; b5 @9 `% b5 p. s* t6 T
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank , v, c% j5 A5 L; [$ h
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. ( v. w- D& }# K
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: # C& l& S# N; m- O0 _: t1 X2 K
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1. Free your heart from hatred. 2 q. ~9 ]+ B7 A t
2. Free your mind from worries. 2 P$ W( L. f& f6 q2 O4 J+ d; \
3. Live simply. ! M: k, Y9 a3 f4 N. K& h$ A
4. Give more. & s' t: [$ M6 Q% v
5. Expect less. |
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