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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
: h3 y0 n! f+ K0 e# L; weach morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
& G; g c# h' h4 B* j# _, `2 ~shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a 7 U" n4 _4 j# w' R1 g* b' K5 K
nursing home today.
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( k; T z) P, ^ Z5 Y! Y' F& QHis wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. ! g1 I& I( R4 v
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, % B. r9 X1 `3 D L. u, Z
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. * F7 `* I' i1 J8 v+ ]6 I
. T) \3 E$ ?1 m$ D5 X- C- [ m/ VAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
$ W- \7 J' x" @ k( E" `description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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7 D: f. T# A1 B# M; D, e4 f"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having ! D) ^' _( I% h* r
just been presented with a new puppy.
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. + O5 c# N" g3 Z- i+ M. e1 E2 V
# _) i. W. n. d9 I4 y"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 2 l; k D" Z5 i+ E& N9 \
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
6 F& [7 e+ m/ P& bI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." $ c% i& y. q/ {* p2 z
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. # }) G( B3 U) H ]
% f3 D, A+ r n1 P9 kI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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/ d) p, C4 p7 o5 V/ xEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
! p% Y' {" \6 }- k, f. [+ Nday and all the happy memories I've stored away. 1 y+ s5 N) f+ J
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Just for this time in my life. - y( r" f) ]0 w( z
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
5 F; O: k) b$ i! |3 r+ paccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
8 B1 j& M+ r& f1 v+ P* tI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: . X' T% q; ?- i6 ^5 t3 M
6 B5 W5 r% `, m 1. Free your heart from hatred. 2 B" w& g# E4 o+ I
2. Free your mind from worries. 7 r& y+ F* M. k7 w+ ?: |
3. Live simply.
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5. Expect less. |
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