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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters0 x A4 B- ?) L2 |9 U
- p1 w# L1 I [( nThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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: ?2 g6 X# S) @, Q: A3 k @How are you?
8 H# D5 @/ V$ x1 D, AFine.2 s6 m2 d# ]; o, N% g0 x
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.9 r8 ?, I6 b; ?0 f' g
9 X C: S2 V0 T# B0 i% eNot bad.
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9 [( k3 P/ O8 T7 S% @/ hThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".0 a$ e S. g; u
3 {" `: t5 G( e4 ]% H& PFine, thanks.
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% O3 U4 i$ ~! H- C8 T1 A3 h& JThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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+ G6 {1 s! |: t2 K. I" I b; VVery well, thanks.2 P. `5 |6 @% V" o6 o
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.1 s' {6 G% ^1 f; v
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual." `' l- S* o$ B7 Y2 ~) `0 N
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Great! How are you doing?$ A. Q6 T' X+ |- ^
- ]% @' U2 L% C+ l( \; \: ?This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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* N, a! M$ I/ V3 G+ y6 BThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.* d/ S% Q% D) V' T' C) ]3 G
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I've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:9 _: n! F+ u+ @1 n+ l
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A: How are you?% s1 t- @$ f) R7 y
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B: I've been better.0 y8 w1 Z/ m3 e* k8 K' L4 G
_3 R) @0 _. l- O+ b: q9 pA: What's wrong?% E7 B& Y1 O2 p( a8 \- R
7 r: r! R/ f' bB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?/ H) X6 J4 p1 d9 G) _$ T
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.2 j+ D% \) U& T1 U, B
9 Q1 d0 N+ U0 Q1 B6 {. \7 nHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"( P0 U1 `5 S! m! G; N/ J, \3 h
" t' R. c {, D8 f+ ?8 P+ LIt's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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, X- G" X! a; `. LWhat's up?
. n0 z) q/ C+ I& h1 w# Z* nThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:$ Z9 T9 _* |& u1 ^! w
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation.": U1 r; v( I: Q* z+ Z9 Z. \( s7 G
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Not a lot.
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4 c# u$ e/ N- L T% L2 hThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.& D1 d7 P/ H: W4 ^# h1 J
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.9 M( w( P; G% s" ?! e
8 y, u! Z2 p' L8 B+ X% I6 u1 COh, just the usual.
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- Q' _% f# R; fAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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- T- x/ {. ]( `$ ]4 F. tJust the same old same old.9 l8 S8 N. v1 ~& _7 w
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.( F* O1 L/ F7 d* k: F: O( \
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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3 W) I$ D6 `8 L" |: RYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.3 i; t, ?. ]' l4 N
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