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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.8 `4 d* p) z/ |7 T
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?": _) n' ~" b$ D0 x( d( O
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.3 b( T: b9 B1 g
' d9 [0 p2 f& E/ jNot bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".# Q" t6 i5 Y* [9 |6 }0 e1 A
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.# A3 V! u( z w" `7 h' l! r
( E- X5 d$ N: F& DA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.1 u' t7 H* B8 y" g3 G+ O i0 @- T
+ q: E3 u/ e; B! J8 l( w3 KPretty good.5 v. z8 h% |- \# S; u+ [9 z
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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! I" q2 O( ?, ?! \: [7 L2 hI'm hanging in there.8 u) p- D; Z% u+ B- ?2 i: ^
/ P/ Z7 R. z+ ~! y3 k ~This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day./ z9 c9 p: `0 Q; X0 ^) n# v, {
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I've been better.* S) [3 U( N4 t' u/ F$ E4 B; ^
2 g8 B' B" w6 a* W5 wPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.7 \- K6 ^$ A: ~' I2 S: N8 G
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.) F4 {7 }% c3 ?) M0 D) V! ^9 h$ B+ Z
8 ^ t0 b L$ ?" N2 \( A. }How's it going?1 X+ y. ?* [9 ?) _3 E
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?" P8 W. B! g5 [) P
* ^: Z5 x! X' G3 l1 n$ L2 HIt's going well. 2 p R/ Q4 e; A. z
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. + R4 ]* l& F, u+ R2 i
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What's up?6 s* h5 ?6 ~/ H. n, X% U% v! U
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:9 ~; o- x) [5 A6 X" ?
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.+ y1 A$ U, Q3 P8 w3 h6 } L
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.1 ?' ^( J M; @8 x/ f6 s
- G j' Q/ ?* |& w" \+ V S2 x/ @This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.; I5 V* s# a- b0 a( e& k- M
; a+ P. E- m- S- \! B8 F9 p+ l R, p, YOh, just the usual.) R5 L# S! B2 b+ W
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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+ ?/ T7 l( h4 B+ W2 Q& ]) xThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
( U/ x6 `4 @) X% ]' |4 ~3 U9 D0 i1 OThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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