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/ E# J0 o6 Z: D1 \! f0 {! _I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
* K1 o4 e$ |- yHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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$ U4 |0 F6 Q0 b5 f2 `+ U; F: |The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you ) G- k" m# n( t! U- k$ S# {
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young 4 F4 w6 x) s! R- ]6 r: x
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable B! W% Z7 L0 ]& t
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
, `# s/ c5 U0 w3 [horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
) H, |" g* J) G- p, [2 NWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted ; |: C2 ]( u+ y. T0 L. k
to be and do when he grew up.
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6 o8 N1 u( }) D" o'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
; m( `, M1 I& [% Y+ P& Y: n! [9 ^owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
9 j5 l% t& s( E5 A4 [1 Vdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
( {+ C' a; L. _' ~! w. kthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot ' M) }" q3 c( g) U) z7 O4 q
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. & q9 A* {5 J0 X- H. K
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 2 E& q0 K5 j$ K/ B. _% E
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. # p; T2 T1 x* U2 Y, e. ?/ s' B
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after + b& F' @3 H% N# `
class.' ) \) h. F+ s4 o1 j! g5 N
* B7 Q4 g9 m. R4 e'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
- I0 c+ k1 z' t7 ~`Why did I receive an F?'
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+ M2 @% H# d1 `2 t3 T'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
0 ]! X m2 D' Y' NYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 2 \1 s3 Z% x5 _8 _6 L) x
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. . B& k- S7 P. q0 [
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
# h/ j$ F: M3 g ]pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
. ]$ ?8 `0 ]" k+ V, e( n7 `4 Vadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
: J% o8 ?7 c+ a1 Breconsider your grade.’ # N4 v7 v. C: m
4 }$ w9 O8 [$ _- W'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
9 u* G2 e: l5 h* }. d6 Twhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
2 d( [ v) N. ^7 u8 x2 d) ?6 Iown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 3 j" u- }: H5 _/ X8 n. _5 o( H
you.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same $ F3 o# i5 b% H" q& @* B+ S1 P
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll , l5 V, y8 U& h* |& m
keep my dream.'' 8 b, f9 T; t# h; y# _
S) p$ i# i, y9 R& \Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
Q9 `( ^ N& I: Wbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
y3 g7 j' V. [9 m7 x5 ~1 W. d' Qmy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the $ K$ A$ }$ `2 R; k6 o0 t4 @( i
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
: D% ?% I( n$ b/ o+ rthat same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' . o, D6 u4 }6 ?; i) c
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
& h. x$ i" _& \; X+ Xnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During 1 U/ k+ `4 L3 Y" u
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption 2 E/ x0 X; o4 B8 E4 t/ ?9 }1 n
not to give up on yours.’'
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# i8 Q, f i( }. \Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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