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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. 1 `! X, F5 o8 E( V9 M0 r
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money " U2 c- j2 x9 e, W9 x: M
for youth at risk programs. " r5 K9 I7 Y% V8 v) A2 O7 m
! |/ W6 [; G& z) b$ a: BThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 1 l8 U; h+ ~# o$ J
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
2 [$ |3 r0 @) L- Iman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
& F* ?- j+ h& ^to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training , G. s6 z; g, A* [6 ~3 \
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. + e) M) h' s1 q7 J
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted / W( f6 C& C) ?/ Z- O- E" c# j
to be and do when he grew up. % b3 U) w. O6 D1 L
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday " p/ i9 q6 i |
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
9 K9 K0 _5 ?# L. K: q& u& _1 z0 Ldrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, }6 J: \; M& O
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot ; ?9 J L z/ L0 q) s
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. / @; T/ Z) B6 K; c1 O" f
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he + d% S% \9 |4 l: w e
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. # _( z* W6 i- S9 Y0 [: g" W
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after 8 T+ o6 L6 ?4 T1 b) h4 ]
class.'
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( y; K! I, A2 c( s7 x'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
! Q) y# A: F% R. U6 f- y`Why did I receive an F?'
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. 4 m* j6 W5 b; w7 N: M
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
7 i3 H5 h9 i s$ I2 bOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 2 [' e$ F. Y; r7 ?* D' m# ]
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to , X: C8 s$ P' ^* E1 d5 x8 U
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
: q% j- l" W" @ u9 L- radded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
5 H4 t3 S" o, J$ R$ Treconsider your grade.’ * {$ B4 B+ a' f6 {- I1 B
$ @) Q' f0 F% b. ?, _% P8 O, }% |; p'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father 4 B# V0 O* i; P: A& c8 u
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your $ O- g7 |2 V% o9 u
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 3 r7 W. m$ L1 I" S9 [1 H: ~# u
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7 t5 M1 H* g# c$ G'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
5 i* x7 v8 h5 r' @0 Spaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
" b, ~- @2 f; U" l' u# ~keep my dream.'' 1 ]* f' a: x2 g
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
, `: m: M# k5 e' Rbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of 4 ]* c. ]7 J/ ?' Y$ R0 g
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the ?' a3 N% e2 d* u/ r* a4 w {
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
0 Z7 e& E) h% M9 p7 x" Lthat same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' . I) J5 P3 C$ b! B
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
5 Y1 t) Y( D2 onow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
- Y8 ^5 n a& y: |9 n5 J; _! Sthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
2 w% @" t/ y8 {" L: g/ T# Bnot to give up on yours.’'
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7 @0 n$ h: N3 b6 e- b+ uDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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