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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. 6 b0 [( }! Q1 `: l, M% Y/ m

2 I6 S0 z; l$ y5 v# W: t2 EThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic ) d. e% M+ ~: U- S' Q1 I; F4 o
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number ; F/ \8 E9 |; l9 I7 l; [
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of people he/she hates.
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1 A/ w: u' \# B$ s3 BSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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" b, ^! V0 H* i; [7 othe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes. 7 w1 D, u7 _  B& ?+ q
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes & B, ~1 Q/ v6 m9 j9 \' `3 |% e
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. 7 D. z& c' u5 w% O

5 k( g4 z: S& U8 jDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain 7 D# M( a3 y. S$ I8 n1 C% c; W2 v4 R

5 Q& j/ ]% L( x' m/ u4 Tdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 ; f* S- w) b% p
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and 4 H) v3 A; K  v

0 S3 j3 e2 Q( Astarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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1 w: [4 T- ~( V& l* Z) zhaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. ) K9 h" S7 W8 b3 \* Y

6 S  b( i) |' F8 K, |, tThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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. l; m9 T& [9 O4 G# [/ lyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred ) c9 }- z% D8 a6 C5 E4 s6 M0 o
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever : J/ f. n& t0 y# O+ u' _
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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in your heart for your lifetime???"
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9 h4 _& t/ ^- n: J"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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. V1 b3 B% q( j" mit is something you do for yourself. ' v" d. C2 e: U+ \' _4 T% ?
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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