Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

& |1 {. q' z3 `- }- B" w8 j& bWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

; X# `; R: ~7 Z/ ]1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
. @9 N7 b$ I& B8 G# z/ aTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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! z5 u) c& f) S3 k' d# Q4 l3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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. L  ^: p$ k; r7 r1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
) o$ ^6 p% t- L9 {( l6 A% LTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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