Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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8 m8 m& o/ m+ u2 c1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
* N/ X+ |( V8 e: w/ h' C: |Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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+ q5 \4 ]7 D( o& c$ B$ K" ~2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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4 [/ Z: f5 N/ U# ], S" s3.        Stay one step ahead
* \$ D! Y, P% uLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
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7 U0 ]0 u* M5 ~" M  }5 bWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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