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本帖最后由 SheJing 于 2013-2-6 13:24 编辑 + d4 |: ?2 ~ C$ j" \. M
三思 发表于 2013-2-6 12:26 ) n/ }9 T, M& E1 R- l; E, C
答案不是更显然了吗? 成功的成因很多,你不需要名牌大学成功,但是名牌大学的成功率会更高些,我们做家长 ...
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名牌大学的成功率会更高些. I agree. A university degree is often touted as being a prerequisite to a good life and a high income. Thanks again for stating the obvious.
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我们做家长的,当然希望孩子冲着高概率去了。Damn right you can only HOPE. At late teens they'll make their own decisions. Your time of running their lives is over. $ g9 d3 i- X$ a
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$ t: S' h/ @/ a- M# `/ t5 N2 w- Academic performance is merely an indicator of potential for success.7 M, C9 \+ J r0 M
- Academic performance does not indicate insured success.
7 s! X: E- |' E0 t: t( W- Academic performance is not the only indicator for success.
( U, @: N8 e3 V2 F) g5 J- 名牌大学 is only helpful if they've got what it takes to survive - talent and dedication wise. Otherwise they will just crash and burn and leave with a lowered self-esteem.
6 r+ K. F) J0 K- Parents don't have the right to decide or to mislead their children on whether they want a high profile/stressful life, or a mediocre/peaceful life. If the parents want to show off or to compare, use house, cars, jobs, penis size, anything. Just not your children. / ~" ?3 I% Q2 U# x" `( e
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