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Sometimes people come into your life
: f# U, m) Y o9 yyou know right away that they were meant to be there,8 l/ I$ g' T4 D( ~4 W, k# q( ]- n
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,/ b1 \+ m' Q8 M+ r+ T# W
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.$ W- O/ j5 F: `& }* d
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You never know who these people may be
$ u I0 P* E1 f `/ z. e; E6 vbut when you lock eyes with them,6 f+ e" b/ C( P- C
you know at that very moment,
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7 ~/ O2 p: Z& e5 N; GThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!' Z& D4 ?/ ~0 {9 [0 f' u. Q
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
) }& G& C4 o7 l# uThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
" S* ?0 \% L* Q" a! hSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
3 x0 }4 h. F) K% }Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
; \6 l0 G% s( s0 h) qour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
. k: L, p f8 Q/ s+ S( d; zThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
4 {$ p' X" x' u% X! GAnd now it is time for you to move on.4 I( t! M+ i4 t A9 a- v
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/ }$ [+ t# M8 e1 q1 h* jThen people come into your life for a REASON* r t: ^, A! E+ \. @/ V" Y
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
/ L# g4 t9 y$ t% B: N1 b& D) sThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
8 [( L) |. l$ _4 N1 J1 \+ Z4 m" |8 UThey may teach you something you have never done.
8 F$ `$ F2 N/ w. V$ F) Z1 M: BThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
9 x/ C' H4 } x. vBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦& D, M. F& S& v( J; u
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
5 y, t2 l8 v; v* j( K. z' AYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
! ]. k6 v9 x3 T/ M! qPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 d5 i, I! ~$ k- D
Everything happens for a reason.0 a6 w+ r/ K0 b- v9 V: i! o
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.6 j' D* G+ C* ^3 c$ m0 f$ ], A1 o
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,& A0 u. U5 K1 d9 E8 W
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
9 b+ p0 T$ D: O# {If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
9 @$ G& p: ~* u$ ifor they have helped you learn about trust7 |3 |7 k" ]) U: }
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
+ q5 k, b' R' W: f3 O% r5 XIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,% ~: s6 Z/ q. e/ p# r+ Z
Try to love them back unconditionally,
: ]; r! l# d4 l: o8 H! U+ unot only because they love you, but because in a way,% I/ \% x. a1 {4 Y5 V1 M
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.4 J+ b% H& ]7 L( y
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,, O9 w- ?9 Z9 U& w. } J6 N
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.+ H8 p: X4 o |6 V
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,9 `( p: _0 @8 D1 W' t. }, B+ ^
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."* E, r7 d, l; c8 U
God's grace is as a healing hand.) }8 b$ u' [- s9 r3 v+ g) c8 B( p
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,0 r9 Z' q: O# a+ {" f2 p0 U
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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