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~SOMETIMES~ 
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1 a7 E" [# }3 V4 d% ?Sometimes people come into your life5 v3 t1 l( D( u3 ?( d) {2 k8 s 
you know right away that they were meant to be there, 
$ n; d- Y. _* o6 Sto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, 
0 v2 V- c& k- d* wor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.1 n, i  j$ U. e  ]0 b0 z8 l  n 
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6 _8 P, p/ C- p! `: o$ b0 m* {5 K2 uYou never know who these people may be 
; [' u, `1 f! rbut when you lock eyes with them,/ z$ D) W% b* w3 F 
you know at that very moment," V- k+ W8 V: J 
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They will affect your life in some profound way 
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are! 
" k/ `/ {7 K1 L, vThey are there for the reason you need them to be.0 {6 q8 J$ `1 ` 
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time, 
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+ o1 u* j, N2 w. c' K5 LThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.% Q( d0 ?- E; R, @5 c 
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.( _; ^- k! h# x. X, L$ ~7 U 
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.  C6 V0 @8 _6 R3 ] 
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What we must realize is that our need has been met, 
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The prayer you sent up has been answered. 
' B6 u3 R3 a: L- p" EAnd now it is time for you to move on. 
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& N5 _. F, f2 _/ b6 CThen people come into your life for a REASON/ L7 H* f4 K1 W  S5 K% M 
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.0 L. _' ?: c! K. t! b9 U, ] 
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh. 
* x  N" r) B7 ~* QThey may teach you something you have never done. 
. J8 i! G/ R* Z+ \5 bThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.6 i; W, |! }4 T  F 
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦ 
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: 
" P; Q) R( z; Z. _8 bYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life, 
/ D4 l/ S  P& V( p, }' x5 B, |Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.; i/ W; ?  }/ t3 ]8 ]9 j4 d 
Everything happens for a reason. 
0 X7 s0 |' E2 U5 |Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.- x; n0 p6 [" B% V- _# y" F3 k 
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, 
1 ]; g. P5 s! `# S% L0 ~& z/ D) ]" uand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.) }8 @, I6 F1 s! Y 
 
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,' |# o& e7 t3 f8 Z$ n1 @ 
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ q6 P' i( o; ^6 w 
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them, 
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.5 L) m. a! Y$ M$ P0 O4 t4 Y& t* N! I 
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,: H. \8 m% }3 x& a7 p5 R6 X 
Try to love them back unconditionally,6 K) k4 j/ U. e5 S 
not only because they love you, but because in a way,8 K& l: m! {9 }4 ]2 ^# O$ ^ 
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. 
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* J3 l' A( N. o/ B# r$ nThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season, 
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.( p+ w: b7 q6 c/ F& @- @5 _ 
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,$ ~+ q+ |7 ]. ^& t$ i7 B 
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..." 
9 }. m! k; y% I% C' X7 eGod's grace is as a healing hand., q* n8 H* |4 t4 w( A, I6 E 
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,  T* F1 y2 p& U' m) O5 ? 
the warm memories and love for those we have lost 
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