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~SOMETIMES~8 s; X3 s9 D' [' |9 a
0 N- ~+ \7 }, @4 y v1 jSometimes people come into your life) I. H! r/ u1 t7 I$ I" t+ z- h& \
you know right away that they were meant to be there,. {) G# _7 W/ D) W: f/ h
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,, N0 ?2 J2 X3 I( B, o
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.' u: c2 b* `- K( q4 z
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2 I+ q' ?' x# ?You never know who these people may be
4 d9 z, m, u F1 m( ~ Fbut when you lock eyes with them,3 m1 n# _* [6 Q
you know at that very moment,% x* X, ^( c, R4 \- D
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They will affect your life in some profound way8 |) f! h: f7 ~4 u' p, G3 Y
. }& a/ J; h$ gThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
+ ?; [1 [) f8 X4 M6 IThey are there for the reason you need them to be.& z* B: H+ O( S7 x0 K
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,0 v& v( F$ m/ G
5 K& d. }* H6 S# nThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
* U+ Q! T& X" f5 w4 WSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
- @/ X' _$ o$ ]' hSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.+ r% h" }" T+ P4 R
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
! q( F3 _: p. l% u- rour desire fulfilled, their work is done.2 }# u# t2 @4 i- J7 I: c
The prayer you sent up has been answered.$ Y, D3 I, W! L* O7 w) W6 x! |
And now it is time for you to move on.* d- e; O( V% _" r# E; \
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Then people come into your life for a REASON R C4 ^" v5 Q5 ^( y# L. B1 }
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
) h7 _" x, r. d" q7 n! pThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
2 |5 E+ f: u2 u- _, kThey may teach you something you have never done.
4 b9 f$ b+ ^. \3 {They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.0 b1 A/ w5 P9 u6 q
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦7 }2 z7 h" q; V; h
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$ R! c/ p6 H7 v) y% Q1 S& T1 OLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
% x6 ?& B# z1 X0 PYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
$ {- n) W I' E8 j( hPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.! N4 e. K/ [& W q0 V
Everything happens for a reason.
/ ^9 O4 D$ T+ _9 `, w0 pNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
, |% l& y, j3 F2 \; uIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,5 `/ o9 s2 y: z7 {; g8 Q8 J. m
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.1 U2 H+ F9 G( O& y- s7 R. o* s4 F! k
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful," t" J8 b$ a4 S& Z7 b& U
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
6 J* z6 e; ~3 y/ X' QIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
" K% }+ J; ~$ F- o; y' ~& Xfor they have helped you learn about trust
: q. L5 w& Q" M4 E, r7 v( N. tand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.( }2 t6 l3 T$ f
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
; V# d( M6 r$ k, |) |) _: MTry to love them back unconditionally,6 c! S/ a P! F
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
* L. ]# c# _( W$ D4 w+ X! qthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.# b. V# @, [2 {& I p, j
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
$ T" u4 f9 |% J% G$ C3 V6 C1 ?A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,0 Q, P% Q# s9 Y |
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."; `, e' s1 a) w* @: Q2 A$ i
God's grace is as a healing hand.
0 R0 f2 B G* kAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,( j. `" k* C$ V1 B1 t C" k; p% ]( Q
the warm memories and love for those we have lost! h: A' {, b# k! P' l: X) ^
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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