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2 @6 W3 I7 E9 Q5 Q/ G/ {, W- q* oSometimes people come into your life
1 N) g' V: g" R" G. c0 f& r* T' nyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
& U$ o. n# g- h8 G) C$ E5 |to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
0 N4 s, W1 u: u' X* s4 t# J( ^% oor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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. C+ t. w" o& t' xYou never know who these people may be% b: u( D. s/ `, Y) t u
but when you lock eyes with them,6 I( z0 `9 j3 Z e
you know at that very moment,; `+ s7 L9 S7 E2 w/ x
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
6 ~' J7 s3 \& wThey are there for the reason you need them to be.$ H" a3 F+ p, a$ y( C; R
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,' i" ?& c# m( T0 P5 U# X( V
7 L& R; M/ e% P/ {, ^The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.# g( ~' q$ x& X- B4 g9 h
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
& \, e: g! N/ P0 S; z9 J; HSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. j# i' p$ E+ u+ E0 n
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,6 w8 J; [0 \' D1 ]
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.. x6 ~. Z1 S! ]( d% n# Y! r
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
& h- X% ?1 R! ]% |6 ]! W0 H1 F" |! GAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON- b- u4 u5 h0 W: J7 e
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.' J, s1 ]* O/ Q4 s4 b5 e
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh./ C/ N( z+ S. h
They may teach you something you have never done.
- W* \ h8 y! U, {$ oThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
- H0 i1 n4 S* ABelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦7 H% ^, S; ^/ O6 n( k
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2 P* `; u2 d, Y( x6 U' ^( f# RLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" Z3 G* A. F& k$ o
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,) {* X3 b9 A- f5 ?3 ^
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.3 O# M. R. }, o7 B
Everything happens for a reason.' ^: U J- j- p0 i, R% i) ]) S* e' C
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.! s8 ?2 L3 y* ?) @% z$ O6 c- B
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,$ E8 K& |7 y7 L3 q% }# ]
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
3 I: Z( _0 i- x( ]. b4 kYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,0 g! u) X, P- x, R1 d
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
8 p, b% n5 B- M% l0 cfor they have helped you learn about trust) g: P7 {% c# a1 Q- x( y2 Z
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.! L( e, w0 c' N6 y5 n' l- ?
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
' x0 I# l9 ~. F, w. } y& n- R }Try to love them back unconditionally,2 b+ F/ W( U3 d% a( O Z
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
: a8 V* S# K$ J- k8 h3 n0 ?) r9 xthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,0 Z7 ]. \1 O7 D! B x
! q2 J$ N5 ~% ~" R' x* i2 g7 }and a time to every purpose under the sun.5 u" H3 u" N9 ` C9 S- T
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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- @4 h5 f+ M) BGod's grace is as a healing hand.% S, h+ x$ D2 d8 K
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,- [9 u' C ^( m0 |
the warm memories and love for those we have lost! s5 z8 O6 |. b9 E1 i+ r' D4 {/ J! w
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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