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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to# B o! [9 ~' q2 E
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear- @% _5 H, `* g& Y
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what* ], z5 O% r. M* i& w
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will* `: h4 P2 v6 B! s
think of you." }7 V+ ~2 V% a4 f! @) m
; F$ S L y" x4 BUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first2 z+ W: o) o* o7 C4 ~8 c
names:
- t, S9 `/ A* z w) B1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
) j, n0 B _6 T4 I; y/ r3 C& W2) The second second: Don't think about what to' G2 x/ C2 o W6 c. { U
say—listen for the name.
% d: f& B7 U+ X3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
G+ r8 @; Y1 w, i3 h4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know" ?. @' D O) T( Q( D# X
with the same name. ]. }6 `, ~ U; F* i
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the+ K v8 c7 f- t
end of the conversation.0 J1 \$ p. a; O6 d' s, V
# i9 \- F: m" _+ [---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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