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Touching words from the mouths of babes.
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A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'* Y' P9 N/ o* ]7 q8 _" h" l/ e
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
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'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
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So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'
- L8 j6 M4 A1 ~0 I6 G9 _( iRebecca- age 8
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'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
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Billy - age 4
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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'
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: y' g# H2 O; l- m$ N$ V'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'
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'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'- ?6 q% f/ D0 }2 X }$ L
Terri - age 41 j3 @( x6 Z# D' p
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'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'/ x( S9 U) Y0 d/ Q1 Y
Danny - age 7# t9 ^4 N! f) d0 B- x/ B* j, \4 ?! b
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) \ U, T9 c9 j- N0 {" _'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.- i' m$ a" N0 H9 d" e5 ~
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'
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& B6 C* p& L0 G'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'
' M( K. W( P; k8 TBobby - age 7 (Wow!)4 G% A2 ^0 g$ ^/ f9 r- p6 O; C; Z
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2 @3 t5 n' G: g4 }' l& d2 A'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'6 Z" ]: `8 E* {) _4 ]7 _
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Nikka - age 66 R/ V$ e3 l3 f' ^4 B
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet) X* w& o+ |* @3 Y$ @3 P
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'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'+ h3 Z) @- \. ]
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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.', v/ u2 i7 ` i3 l2 E1 t) \
Tommy - age 6
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'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
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He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
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'My mommy loves me more than anybody- C5 \8 ]* I3 t5 |1 M; J
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You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'
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2 I) s* {5 m6 C& M8 e1 Q'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.': s1 M Q+ T3 F! E& Y0 I
Elaine-age 5
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'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
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]3 O U8 R/ I% YMary Ann - age 4
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5 C* h$ D, b- z& z' \'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
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' a- g6 P3 J7 B4 }'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image); a# G" D/ t+ b/ R9 G
Karen - age 7
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'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
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And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.1 Y( U4 H Q1 H/ S5 L9 E
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.8 ?2 B$ V) `1 f& p( Q& _
0 B8 [1 T' C+ h$ BThe winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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- E T. H# D; {, jWhen his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,
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