 鲜花( 8)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
6 g! I* |. @ V, _1 }/ `兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 2 n; V$ a2 J1 {# \, D. n
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 - W8 c0 e/ D$ a
9 U% y! t8 V5 V7 q3 u4 b
There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
3 E9 e7 g+ f2 { M/ K% [& U) Z& O9 @8 v) m8 R8 {) B9 g* y
In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
; X) x& c5 N6 i; O, e. ^
! ?4 K& V9 t. v8 O. [6 OA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
|