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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
( e" J, @8 n" E/ A: d( H7 I& U兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 & X) e" j) ^, r; M4 b' I: ~6 A1 m
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 / m: B9 h8 O' y. _5 ~9 W/ ^, T/ @
. x2 w+ d2 ~" {7 H6 [There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. . O, s! V* {6 G5 _# A7 R, R
/ x+ ^- X; l: ]8 `- ?8 e& EIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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. q9 W6 X! `$ Q: ~& [3 KA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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