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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑
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今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享
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On Children( c) R2 N4 F; k! k1 A* U# I
Kahlil Gibran
' N7 Y% ~& x6 l3 }, z" k7 i$ yYour children are not your children.. _( a5 X) C3 _
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
# y$ z9 f% K/ t. u! bThey come through you but not from you,7 I' O: ~7 r2 W/ ~" ~; `# \% k
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.* G& o5 e( H# K7 ~# y$ \. m3 `9 K
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
9 m# V( P$ o  V, \6 u6 @/ ~4 e4 aFor they have their own thoughts.: u! ?, M2 x0 A6 {* X0 U; U
You may house their bodies but not their souls,; I% X% U& i, n2 D
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
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! V5 m5 K* ?7 T; d. ]+ yYou may strive to be like them,
1 }" j9 O; y6 X9 Lbut seek not to make them like you.
2 G9 z+ h$ T  L: \3 `! _. tFor life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
) w! L, S, P1 E: {: k& W5 j( iYou are the bows from which your children% X1 S: e( X4 R
as living arrows are sent forth.
5 z5 I4 u  u: c2 M8 KThe archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,2 G2 B1 S8 Y1 ?7 o# }( {
and He bends you with His might
2 s3 H: ]) j$ W& K- R( s: `that His arrows may go swift and far.$ ]0 x7 h* T( l' y
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
+ [6 |( P1 W0 f, K% EFor even as He loves the arrow that flies,
+ \' f) }1 M& S5 u' J3 lso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。/ q4 b( m1 ^, j/ n; I. K

# a3 I5 W! m* T, r$ b你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
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他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。
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你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,) z& y+ ~: W0 p) U! d: A7 i
因为他们有自己的思想。
! m% [1 M& v, d! R+ a" m9 k9 J* o你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,) M6 W8 ^3 e- h- l% n9 f6 I& {
因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
% M# t& q9 A3 I- M+ x, V, a你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
' ?! [3 i" l' N2 B却不要让他们变得和你一样,% q7 Q' N5 }7 X2 T
因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。7 |! n; }& }7 E& O+ A3 \
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
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它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。
: [+ i- W  i+ U1 l/ m6 t怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,0 ^1 e3 p/ b1 A1 X
因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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