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Originally posted by 阿童木 at 2004-9-21 11:51 PM:0 d* l: M& J* Y K. H/ g
我看到大家的回复了,多谢. 我把帖子又贴到女性话题是想看看有没有同名相连的姐妹,能不能介绍一下经验,麻烦大家了. + E# t4 }5 d6 d3 Y1 b' Y% i% g+ g
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It does seem that he is still holding his hope up, begging for your love. How bad is he? Other than you fight with him, is he abusing you physically? Or does he have some bad habits that you just can’t put up with? ) c. K) O6 J+ Y2 i2 y" ]( \' M* X
% w2 p: U5 q% w7 U/ n1 A. ~- f$ {: J1 {Whether to keep married or get divorced, I really think you should reconsider your feelings and behaviors. The relationship may have some to save. If not, not worth fighting! Calm yourself down and tell him you need some time to think about it or make a “deal” with him, heart to heart.
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2 u* \0 r. f9 VIt is tough for you to face the unhappy marriage but it is not easy for him to face the failure to have married a woman who only wanted to use him for immigrition either. You are both living a bitter life now and try to think in his shoes and ask him to do the same.
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Should nothing work out, you would still have your choice to divorce. At least you are buying your time when trying to work out the relationship!
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It is hard to give you any valuable advice, not knowing what situation you are truly in. If you have already made up your mind to leave him, consult immigration lawyers, which hopefully is not your only option.' Q. r* U( s, G6 G3 y
( R" }( G: z( W& C' Y3 _: l# q英文是我上次的帖子。你的现状很难猜得出,你又不涉及一点关键问题, 不容易讨论。I immigrated the same way but we are still very happy together. We both try to make the relationship work and the result is satisfactory. |
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