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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.+ U" m, Y) b: L, S( I! K
Google small court.
4 U3 u* r/ J1 X# n9 W9 aThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
3 _7 {$ W; F' k4 \% MIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. 2 E" ^' W" Q5 m" O$ a( ^: g( d* V
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years./ E n( Y% ?2 m9 F* Y3 V) ~/ _
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