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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed * K/ d3 I. T6 l) x* A
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
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nursing home today. 7 k0 K+ F: G6 g( A4 ?
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
8 d0 K( W+ S4 a( e" E" M3 MAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, ( e) `, i1 T; U! |; G" N( E
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. % B I. m% `! i4 c4 Q0 A
6 F% c3 y9 G, E# ^4 B. CAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
; x8 s$ x* g3 F# kdescription of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
4 b+ o U/ p# Q& Thung on his window. % w e% I4 [: |
8 Y/ L' G; k. c& C"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having 1 x( ]$ K7 u$ B& L7 B0 c
just been presented with a new puppy.
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." + e, p( M: B1 T: s& K( R+ L6 A
s/ [0 V2 A7 G6 E& H# U2 P"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. Y2 |5 ^( x. A
+ J1 \7 {" R8 s8 v( N4 h2 d"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 6 t: a* b6 I: `6 Z
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
5 B( W6 }% M$ ~; X; Y8 ^* gI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 7 b% i$ G% n! G7 ^' O
! D6 ` w& X! T0 q- x$ ?6 w) DIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. ; a C. l1 n+ U8 S8 P6 j7 b! R
7 Y0 L0 E) G9 B1 N# WI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
5 v* \8 n- }# i( m0 z' Zhave with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
) {+ s4 C6 z& qand be thankful for the ones that do.
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0 v" \; I$ P/ v' {2 G9 S F' ^Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new 6 S& ]# m1 m+ @6 p1 b- t# H: V
day and all the happy memories I've stored away. - E+ f z1 i' W7 T' Z8 A# \
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Just for this time in my life. 1 Y: [7 v x( W& p- D
7 x, W6 J3 ^8 s$ t3 f1 C6 QOld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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5 w4 I+ Q0 S& a' z+ PSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank ) I- M0 A# G% l
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
* `# V# e# B: c4 Y8 j: ?$ b7 mI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: ) h1 @ u( G, g/ I6 p% g5 f
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
4 _% ?# ]: F( y, ~ 2. Free your mind from worries. 1 m, t1 z+ [ d4 h, w e
3. Live simply.
@: K+ P( L. z- g6 h0 K/ z/ h 4. Give more. $ O" Q: l1 M3 q4 E, r
5. Expect less. |
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