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; X6 g1 [1 y, w7 f/ RHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters' M' ]* S& Q" e; q& r/ x
$ X6 D4 F7 {; {6 H+ fThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.; U6 s9 |) J- a; B
6 D# E. O1 ]- Y# E$ j1 I pYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?) v2 \ k7 n5 B
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2 ^3 q: H" t# g2 j# l7 N3 EThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation., l) B2 t$ z3 @, ?! j1 t& T
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Not bad.% S' [0 A$ l' @
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.. [2 ?3 h" n, c9 P8 c' S
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?% e) k+ X& t2 k. P: Z \
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.+ }0 Z( m; z/ P- u# ^
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.# @/ N/ Q1 S; d( V
h+ t7 e4 M5 \# [9 B- g7 zPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:$ m6 i o' D" V& P+ S1 K* [
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A: How are you?4 t# K) h% J3 W
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B: I've been better., g4 { n/ @+ j. G2 T! m
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.; X5 w9 }' a8 z" B
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How's it going?
, U1 \& u& c$ wThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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3 R$ E: F! |% b- \Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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7 e$ Y2 O: n5 V( T/ s4 @8 cThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 4 W# J, Z" p' h
. U) X; k6 U9 {4 d8 _What's up?8 a* b) k" U) K8 p+ T
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:9 i/ ]' G( b# W" L+ t- _, L) O
1 |. X9 B' Q3 F8 X9 F2 e# y4 a; uNothing much.
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9 l' ]" f+ x) bThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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' q% a8 C- z7 K0 @This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common./ F7 @: M% E+ Q' _# E: n+ l
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.$ @. z0 R9 O4 D
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Oh, just the usual. x8 D4 s8 z( y" B
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.# Y( @: D2 p" I/ H _+ {
0 T/ v. y& i, v, n$ F9 yJust the same old same old., Q7 h( W$ S2 N3 W; _! x
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it." T5 C1 S2 r. H, J# d: s( _
8 z% W5 |5 C h- _Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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" ~ _9 w F% @0 YYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
1 W( ^# {8 ], _# a+ A! X" mThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.# l) r1 M# k0 s5 C! N& x; @7 l, _
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