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. u; ~: [4 D5 x; xHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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- b! ?! A$ I: F* oThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.: L3 u6 V9 L0 G: y+ ~
1 c1 b( S4 r: ^+ X t* @2 p: r3 pYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"' N, K9 |. p8 m+ d2 H7 E
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How are you?
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8 J+ p, X r' w& t7 K0 Y/ b1 t1 aThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.5 N/ L0 [/ ?( g7 X7 ^" Z% w
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Not bad.: p% F1 e% l$ D; \& e4 c* @
6 S% x5 v- O0 J9 m+ S; UThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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) c( f9 |% k4 j! P$ h; P5 nFine, thanks.+ S8 _& W1 g5 w+ @5 ]- h
5 K! T3 h d6 K- E6 ?This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.4 s% F& [7 M1 d
8 |5 u S3 f% e1 L% wVery well, thanks.7 I5 g+ A( Q/ k4 P
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.$ N9 b: ~ a$ U* b* _
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.: d# c7 Y- r6 `, T( [2 s+ i2 l
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I'm hanging in there.( k. A! ~% {0 v. m: I7 f
1 L1 j9 J, ^. sThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.% `) I8 j- C, t' g0 |6 e
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I've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:8 e9 V- P6 o' Y" Z% M
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A: How are you?% Y S3 _( U i# _
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?1 j5 o0 E: D @" A
# i8 s( z- S- W2 G1 ~B: I just found out that I'm being laid off." k0 }5 V9 V/ e! S9 l0 k' P- H0 H
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How's it going?8 M) j* J, |: S# y' Y- q
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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3 ^9 p) K9 l7 \" |5 @9 L3 b& aHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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, l! _1 e- y4 }# q. NIt's going well.
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2 @" w, l9 l, r: O, |% Q8 FThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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6 y" v/ m f0 PWhat's up?
3 g1 p$ M7 M% j1 x3 V! w8 f8 I, Z3 dThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:8 Z! u) @# P6 V, C* u$ Y* {( B
- M+ Q9 H3 x& Y1 @1 K% wNothing much.
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/ f ?' j: |& t: }, G. z! x" v0 D% lThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.4 P1 d; P: K# \+ \
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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# E' _0 b; G5 j8 U4 M, |( c8 E2 SNothing.# M1 v0 i- A. t3 v
' ^9 E, A# S/ ?6 P; ^This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.1 b# z; `' O9 J% {9 x
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Oh, just the usual.- q$ X5 G# ]" k" X6 h; s" C+ g
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old. E3 k4 {; U. k8 g7 N" i; \! S
- d1 G6 }3 E& [1 \. Q9 X7 mThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.9 V. U1 O9 @7 n$ t! {
6 f8 ~4 N! B$ xOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.4 V4 l4 z" f7 a2 c7 I
. I/ E' J4 c0 S9 R" wWhat's happening?6 W5 N- ]2 ~* c7 X+ W, ^7 A' s7 p1 ~
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.7 Z# f! A+ I( z. s* c# |3 B! W
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