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2 ^4 r# W* m8 j1 ^! {5 t) oHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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6 W. h) K2 l+ I+ U# O# Q4 rFine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.( W% K, }. F! e, O q N/ r0 o
. |8 d% q8 `# G; }Not bad.2 p. {3 z3 @3 o$ ^# i
( X$ j5 X; V( T, Q8 D2 zThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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( K7 A( s1 B" XFine, thanks.
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, e$ X7 H* Y% Z& O# t0 f4 NThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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, x# j! R5 l) GVery well, thanks." p/ S' [2 r" w" C7 ?8 |% g L. d
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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/ a8 W) B( R0 Q6 U6 z$ j iPretty good.
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6 y% A: S) W( ~ T+ _$ h& JIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual./ |. z6 E/ [( v- j$ T
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Great! How are you doing?
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, f" C6 K# F3 R' A* m+ PThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation. g! s3 b0 `7 t8 y1 C C0 T9 d
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.0 f: i9 X/ E3 e6 w6 A
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I've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:- I+ n9 X3 [3 K! |# Q+ S
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B: I've been better.
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/ P% ^4 @% `" E- E, ^: C% ^. TB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.# B! p! Y+ @9 N2 u0 [! o
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How's it going?
, z; P q( F' W, r" J) {This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.' p0 U: M/ Z% _' K
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?" Z2 t* d& c/ G/ j* j6 D6 Z) S
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It's going well. ; C9 D6 } V5 v: R, c: a
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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, H( U4 @, `: f& \. t& uThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.4 N9 W: G+ c& ]2 ~
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."1 [9 K5 X( x5 [
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.3 ?, k) k; ~5 W; Q6 J1 ]
* h8 [/ s5 C: r: B0 ]9 O+ ZThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.2 v8 S. q+ j4 ~& y( y% P
@& k `& U4 `8 ^Oh, just the usual.
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2 j& L- }& Z3 d' g C3 t8 ?2 @/ y: UAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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) z! [; d1 Y+ B. T0 ]- ]Just the same old same old.
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4 O2 a! x( `3 }' n; s; y3 R8 |This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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9 f" U9 T! r9 d! w, V0 y3 K' yYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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