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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you % _2 z0 Y0 H& e4 S \, Z
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
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horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. 9 ?4 [ i0 e5 Y$ o6 K& d
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
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drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
. X1 y- G, L& lthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot q/ n, ~. u8 _, _' l' r
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
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On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after 0 ]6 v: f& r) }; Z
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 9 V' r c% R1 p( I
`Why did I receive an F?' 1 e* j) p1 Y3 V' ?3 |$ }
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. " m' {+ c8 W% ^: Q4 `
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 4 f( p& k7 \9 G
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
9 \ `" W0 O+ o; q0 J9 E( w9 f* v& P$ tYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to - y: J1 h- l: R( P- B0 d
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher 0 U% T# p- j9 a
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will * q2 Z/ H/ l$ X# i( j
reconsider your grade.’ : j1 {1 g' e c3 r) Y! N' T# L
8 P& A h" C; e+ V! B, ~$ n'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father O* F5 d$ w9 i/ {
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your $ x/ Z% r& V5 s/ L0 p. X
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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* G) s! n% u$ ^% N( X, v- P'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same & U3 h: c+ _/ ?; Z% U k3 X# ~9 m
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
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; Y3 R6 G+ L6 jMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
0 ]. Y' o V# A( k. kbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
$ D+ Y$ h" u9 ?3 ~my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the ( W- ^$ T( @$ ]# L, X
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 6 k' q6 X( |7 V) T3 S( ]
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
, ? M8 k2 \# [* S) m3 bWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this ( X+ q* ]) C" i) I8 ~
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
5 T+ r4 \- u% g) j+ L5 O0 S) r+ l! [those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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5 C1 v3 z/ @0 _7 EDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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