can't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ.5 A$ Q% } J0 N/ G
really prefer wechat, so whenever I have an english question, ask and get help instantly ( wish) 4 ^3 @3 z+ _7 J% x1 O0 p/ M( @0 P' M& E: J/ r3 Y
thank u for all response, still looking for more specific answer.
永远的末班车 发表于 2016-2-2 12:51. N6 a9 L) w! C* q
can't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ.' j( U+ ?6 J) @2 f. k& u* w
really prefer wechat, so whenever I ...
( z2 X; i4 i$ f* z+ i" t在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。所以你的同事才会变得defensive。即使上级对下级也都是很客气的。当然如果别人侵犯你了,那要另当别论。
newelec 发表于 2016-2-2 14:03 ' Q5 P$ ]0 P4 a P: ?! D$ C在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。 ...
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我不明白为什么会有这种观点,如果是我,感激还不及呢,不说今后不再犯同样的错,何况我之所以指出他的错,是因为这事件直接联系到Manager.; w$ c+ d; O; _+ d" E; ^) G4 B
我还以为他会感谢我,可能他正是有这种观念,所以才那样回答我。 + W( X1 \6 a, e. {Well,不认为每个人都会feel being offended, 3 t" t: ~8 k* p" v
只是通过沟通熟悉每个人的风格吧。