买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. " [+ X" h, V% e# m7 W
8 ^- N/ ` n9 e7 L2 l
不送钱,鲜花一般送在入土的墓地里。 * S2 q& @( _# @* ^: k