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THE STENCH OF HATRED

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" E# r; K% j1 f) ZA kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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/ o" o; d. e! C5 h- cThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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; {: h0 l" N. E8 i5 P# Cbag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that

  |, y9 A2 _, M% `! ja child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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! X/ a6 Y: `1 b" |: A( }# E2 ~So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some

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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes

in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain

, g. {+ J+ ?( c( d, Wdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,

6 J" P) `0 i& ]0 M5 s/ M% Othose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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3 p4 D5 J3 u5 a0 w, KThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and

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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.

Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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9 g( \- r' g1 F% {' o* Q7 nThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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; V1 `; T3 S( Y+ H8 t. J6 jyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred

& |( w  G1 ]! X% F( \1 Pwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever

; w! y) ?; j9 Jyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred

in your heart for your lifetime???"
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, V% r6 v/ B% e( V, ^: i  Q"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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it is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"

connie

The implied meaning is simple but profound.