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Stop saying no to your toddlers

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发表于 2007-4-12 11:41 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.! a7 c% U. _$ i9 D
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2.        Speak up when she’s good
; f% U# ~$ d0 ?, q- n- mIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.7 f; H; J3 F' B( y' M0 k  ~6 }

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Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.
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发表于 2007-4-12 16:15 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2007-4-12 17:52 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
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5 S0 u1 _* K5 Q! H' c8 z3 N0 tWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:) x" W2 r0 |- j( ?8 t. q

' o8 R: ?4 S0 C  M' x1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
" o) h8 x, w8 |, C4 z2 ATry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...
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 楼主| 发表于 2007-4-13 07:30 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”,怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案,希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。
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发表于 2007-4-15 10:44 | 显示全部楼层
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