Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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1 ~( f( K- Q9 s5 u" FWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
( k  ]! A4 X4 {5 HTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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1 {8 E3 V: y0 c1 Y( e2.        Speak up when she’s good
6 g" T( E  W" b" X& v' sIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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+ U: O4 J0 J' }% |8 u3.        Stay one step ahead
# O- l$ F+ ?4 Q( q* P4 nLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
9 O4 g# }2 x& L5 j. sFrom no to yes
5 q9 w) U; _  g& ^: `  i! N2 r
) ^3 @/ K  R# L$ oWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
- m: e. Y, c' x0 h6 P! T( J
1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
6 f7 Q2 U; I) B/ t% g* xTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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