Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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: b$ `2 ~/ [8 I: t0 Y  U* ]1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
; f% U# ~$ d0 ?, q- n- mIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

: _2 S' j9 i* J6 g; `) i3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
9 ]$ j; T0 T( O7 \( X  RFrom no to yes

5 S0 u1 _* K5 Q! H' c8 z3 N0 tWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

' o8 R: ?4 S0 C  M' x1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
" o) h8 x, w8 |, C4 z2 ATry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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