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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.1 K0 l; y, m! q" [4 c2 b
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* X4 F( y; \& D7 O9 K5 L pThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. * N- j# ?% w" g- M' c7 d/ l
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. " p" B/ G; M& u8 v2 o( c3 t
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.6 ?. {9 U, {! d6 F6 u
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