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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.9 [# d$ @ Y( t- V9 ]
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( L1 `, {# A+ z4 ^7 Q2 q8 M, O1 {Think this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. ( [3 Q. h( f* p# T
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do.
+ N) @3 V/ F6 H/ `. J3 qAs the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.) o8 b+ {( i; t& @5 N. W% I- N
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